I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby

[TM]

@Undecided Keep the baby If You're pregnant for more than 3months If not and u don't want the baby go do an abortion If that have no risk on your health . If you want to keep the baby and be a mother this way you should raise the baby alone since the father of the baby is not qualified to be a good father and husband therefore you should sue the father to take responsibility to afford the needed needs for u and the baby ... and in better çases If you have a family that are willing to accept ur situation go live with them but sue the father for the baby needs . IN both cases the father should take full responsibilty for what he did .

[Cold Sun]

@Undecided said in I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby:

Please help
Just found out am pregnant..we broke up with the father of the baby before i knew i was pregnant.we broke up because he wasnt treating me right..😭😭😭

Awww so sorry to hear that

What should i do..should i tell him or abort the baby?

Idk. This is so sad

[ssll sg]

@The-Mods

' therefore you should sue the father to take responsibility to afford the needed needs for u and the baby'

so,youre saying that the reason that they have had sex is entirely because of the men,and the women doesnt have a say at all?

so,youre saying that this girl is weak and a man is always the patriarch to support the women?

arent the feminazis wanting 'equality' or whatever?

[TM]

@ssll-sg I'm saying that a baby needs his mother after birth for at least a full year!!! A man should take responsibility as a Father who support his wife and kids In any situation!! You're "Feminisim" shit , Forces the woman to go to her work and put the baby away from her for years untill she finishes her job and come to home tired etc ... That's not equality cz logically two couples shouldn't do the same role In life but only In exceptional reasons. Got It ???

[TM]

@ssll-sg What about we plant dicks for every woman to feel equal ??? Huh boy? What abt we change the nature of life and fuck biology and psychology for you??? What abt all women go to work and all men breast feed their babies?? Huh ? What abt Men get pregnant too why not ? For the sake of equality? Is this fucking equality??? And who told a man Is enough to raise a child? Both you ass Boooooooth needed to fill a role that fits their capability!! Ok boy? That's the equality!! Everyone TAKES THE ROLE THAT MOST FIT THEM.

[ssll sg]

@The-Mods

' I'm saying that a baby needs his mother after birth for at least a full year!!! A man should take responsibility as a Father who support his wife and kids In any situation!'

how is it the responsibility of the father?
the mother can easily opt to ABORT the parasitic growth tumor in her womb,no?

if the father doesnt want the baby,but,the mother wanted to give birth to the baby,why should the party that refuses to have a baby needed to pay for the expenses?

HUHH???

[TM]

@ssll-sg Becauseee the father was part of fucking creating the baby !!! Whether he likes It or not !!! 2nd of all the kid has multiple rights during his early years Including his father being part of his world !! If not by being close, at least by being known and active in the kids life ... what if the mom decides to get married all of a sudden and the father decides the same , and the kid refused to live with a step mom or dad .. what will he do ? Go to live on the streets ?? The abortion part is by agreement If not then they both should be obliged to take full responsibility as parents .This world is full of sick and psychos already we dont need to add 1 to them .

[Janet]

@ssll-sg said in I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby:

if the father doesnt want the baby,but,the mother wanted to give birth to the baby,why should the party that refuses to have a baby needed to pay for the expenses?

Because having sex has the chance of having a baby. If you aren't capable of taking responsibility of the possible outcome of a child then fucking don't have sex.

[ssll sg]

@Janet

'Because having sex has the chance of having a baby. If you aren't capable of taking responsibility of the possible outcome of a child then fucking don't have sex.'

great logic there,BOY!

so,does that mean

-owning a knife has the chance of you using it to stab others.so,DONT BUY A KNIFE!!!!

-having a car means that you have a chance to hit another human with it,so,DONT OWN A CAR!!!!!!!!

-eating food has a chance to make you fat and sick,so,DONT EAT FOOD!!!!!!!!!

your logic does not compute,BOY!
try again.this time,try to use your brain for once,

LOL!

[Janet]

@ssll-sg holy shit your brain is fucked BOY

[Janet]

@ssll-sg We are talking about creating a human life that SOMEONE has to be responsible for. Don't use other examples to try and make my logic wrong.

[ssll sg]

@The-Mods

'Becauseee the father was part of fucking creating the baby !!! Whether he likes It or not !!!'

but the father(in this hypothetical example) DOESNT WANT the baby,BOY!!!!!!!

youre basically ABSOLVING all the responsibility of the decision made by the mother to continue with the pregnancy

FACT
-the mother decided to continue on the pregnancy on her own

FACT
-the father disagree with the pregnancy and wanted to terminate it

FACT

• the father,whho,i remind you,doesnt want to take any part in rearing the child,he is still responsible to clean up the mess that was made by the mother.

what happens to personal responsibility?
are you saying that the mother is not responsible for her action to choose to continue the pregnancy and gave birth to a child??????????

SHE wanted to continue the pregnancy,then,SHE is the one responsible in raising the kid.

get it?

[Janet]

@ssll-sg FACT

If a pregnant woman decides to have the baby, even if the father did not want the child, the father is not exempt from providing child support for the child. ... In fact, the court looks at what is best for the child, and considers a child's best interest to be served when both parents provide financial support.

laws are laws so your opinion is irrelevant

[ssll sg]

@Janet

what???????
the FIRST PRINCIPLE is the same,buddy!
you claimed that everyone shouldnt do anything that has the possible to reach a bad outcome,didnt you?

dont have sex because you might have unwanted pregnancy(THATS WHAT YOU SAID)

so,whats the difference with

dont use knife because you might stab others?

the severity of the bad outcome of someone stabbing others with a knife is equal or more than unwanted pregnancy,no?

[ssll sg]

@Janet

'In fact, the court looks at what is best for the child, and considers a child's best interest to be served when both parents provide financial support.
laws are laws so your opinion is irrelevant'

i KNEW youre going to say this.

you: durrrrr....its the law,you cant argue with the law....durrrrr

so,are you going to respect the law during the reign of nazi germany that discriminates and killed all the jews?

are you going to respect the law in nigeria or burkina faso thatt a 12 years old can be wed to a 50 years old?

are you going to respect the jim crow laws of segregation,racism and oppression of certain ethnicity?

wow.
youre just a sheep,aint cha,boy???

[Janet]

@ssll-sg said in I need help..am pregnant and we broke up with the father of the baby:

you: durrrrr....its the law,you cant argue with the law....durrrrr

You can cry and whine and give as many examples as you want. Does not change the fact that this is about the LIFE of a child and protecting that life regardless if both parents want that child or not.

If the mother does not want to have an abortion but does not want that child and the father does... that man can sue for child support as well. Its not only about men not wanting a child but holy shit people need to take responsibility for their actions and you are just saying that men can go around impregnating women with no responsibility because HUR DUR THEY DONT WANT KIDS.

[Cold Sun]

@ssll-sg It not a boy.

[ssll sg]

@Janet

see?
you dont even answer anything.you just deflect and avoid talking about it because you KNOW that youre wrong,right?

you think that people shouldnt argue about the law when you wrote

'laws are laws so your opinion is irrelevant'

so,when i gave you the examples of TYRANNICAL and OPPRESSIVE laws out there,you simply ignores it and continue on believing that law is supposed to be infallible and always right?

dear jebus.
you need to educate yourself.
try to use common sense and logic before you write anything.

[Janet]

@ssll-sg Its called not feeding trolls which its obvious you are.

[Cold Sun]

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