• Move forward geng.
    Perhaps something remains unsaid for you, even now. Perhaps that’s why your feelings remain so strong.

    Perhaps part of you holds out hope you could get back together again. Perhaps you need to admit that and let go of it.

    Maybe you fear you won’t meet anyone else like your ex. You won’t, but you will meet someone. Just they will be different.

    So, instead of trying to quash emotion, ask “Is it possible for me to feel like this and still be okay?” Because your heart is stronger than you know; it is designed to handle being broken.

    Go in, sit down, see what happens. Give your heart the chance to say everything it wants regarding the relationship and whatever is entwined with it. What emerges may surprise you.

    Give yourself a new and different opportunity to leave it behind.


  • I know it’s a cliche, but time really does make everything better; there will be other guys, you will move on with your life. You just need to be strong and to get through this difficult time and you will be alright, I can assure you of that.


  • @otsbunny just forget about him and move on pretend you never met him and don't know him if by luck he will come looking for you one day ☺


  • Yes It's tough I went through something similar but it was only my second relationship type thing. We cant take offense and also have to realise we might not be campatable with them and they aren't the one if they dont love us; but lets face it things change and even though this seems like forever you will find more people to love. They might find someone else too and maybe one day you two will rekindle your love. It is so hard but you will heal in time!