Hi.
Your friend is probably hurt because you spoke to someone else about him being suicidal. I know you meant well, but he probably is ashamed of it and doesn't want others to know. You telling his other friend made him feel like you broke his confidence.
It will take time to gain his trust again, but I think you shouldn't give up on it. Try talking to him, explain to him why you spoke to the other friend who made fun of him. In the end, if time is what he needs, give it to him. Just make sure he understands you care for him and will be there for him when needed.
I hope you patch up your friendship.
All the best!
Trying to get your opinions
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Should u keep someone who made u feel worthless or boring? Coz it doesn't feel right...
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@Ziah_99 No ? I'm not sure how people can do that to me anyways. I fight back usually & it ends naturally.
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Funny thing is there's a tendency this person remembers u'r worth when he/she need something or someone to talk to. Then forget u easily when he/she got talked with the person he/she wanted to. That sucks.
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@Ziah_99 I'll assume they're emo & would replace me by finding the same "worth" in a stranger
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@Allison aww. That's so mean. I asked it coz I have this friend who treats me like a shit. And irdk how am i going to deal with her rn. And i don't want to let go of our friendship. Or am i keeping a one sided friendship??? :Siiiigh:
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@Ziah_99 I just dislike people who are two faced & ride on emotional fluctuations rather than commitments. I'm not going to stick around. & i especially hate it if they apologize without any indication they'll change(and they don't).
Just don't downplay her making you feel worthless.
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@Allison tysm. I think this is life tho. People come and go. Encountering a real and fake one; up to us on how r we going to deal with it. Just hopin' soon I can be like u who can easily avoid or ignooore them. Btw, nice knowing u here 😊
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@Ziah_99 People break & if they want you they're gonna have to pick their better half. Babysitting doesn't work.