I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Hi I wanted to say I'm really sorry for those who I missed treated...
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@Kina_Joy I relate to this so much :(
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@foxc3693 like the dad part or what?
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@Kina_Joy i am usually a gut that talk lots, but after ur words now, i am speechless, just thank you for the kind words, and it's a surprise that u consider me so much, i value that lots, so as always, if u need me, u can count on me :hugging_face:
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@DennisJM Lol of course I consider you your the best
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@Kina_Joy call me anything but the best lol. i am like anybody else
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@DennisJM oh shush your the best
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well thank you Kina, i really appreciate the apology and i forgive you :).
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@Kina_Joy i will be shut now, looks like i am wrong now :laughing:
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@DennisJM Yeah great friend you actually care about my feelings more than anyone on here I can tell you my emotions with out getting rude comebacks... except for scottish and canadian guy they are nice too
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@Kina_Joy well, if u want to make me blush, you are doing right lol. i can't even choose more serious words to describe, in the end i'll just let the past on the past. and use what we learned to make us better people.
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@DennisJM
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@Kina_Joy
https://tenor.com/view/cat-hug-back-hug-notice-me-attention-to-me-gif-14227401well nevermind i forgot how to post gifs LMAO
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@DennisJM lol its ok
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@Kina_Joy
Lol it's alright, Kina. Don't worry about it!
You shouldn't take everything too personal tho
I'll have to apologise on my behalf as well if I offended you in any way.
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@LiIyRose nice words Lily
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@Kina_Joy You've got great advice and support here. That should tell you all you need to know, and I really don't need to say what has already been said.
Be yourself - for yourself - and the right people will accept you wholly, without judgement or question.
Wishing you peace and hoping tomorrow brings a fresh start.
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@Kina_Joy just send noods to @LiIyRose and she will be fine. 😂
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@Kina_Joy its all right
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@CELIAAAAAAA noted with thanks. Lasagna next time. 🤣