i can be v your friend I'm 46
Friends being clingy and general angst
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@K-qwerty fool me once shame on u... Fool me twice shame on me... She has already flipped the script on u once... Things like that r red flags...
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@cant-breathe yeah lol. the only reason I'm still even thinking about it so heavily is because my friend who is also my ex's friend brings her up sometimes for some reason. Which just makes me want to scream that her life isn't my business why are you telling me this??
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Sounds like rubbing salt in ur wounds
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@cant-breathe I don't know why anyone does anything anymore so that's a possibility
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Is this breakup possibly one of the reasons u r pulling away from ur friends?
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@cant-breathe It's probably a factor the main realization came when my sibling ended up being abandoned by their friends after graduating and I just don't want to risk being ghosted and having to find no friends and just being hurt by anyone when they abandon me I guess I just got lucky at the fact that only a few talk to me after I go home online but yeah
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U seem to be rather young still life could turn out amazing u never know...
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One good friend is all a person needs
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@cant-breathe thanks I appreciate your optimism I would say that I have that but I honestly don't know seeing as I might just drift apart from the two friends that I trust most eventually as well
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It's getting late where I am so I'm gonna sleep after deleting this post probably. All I can think of saying is I wish you luck on what's happening in your life (sorry that that was lame) goodnight
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Not asleep y delete this r we supposed to? Like I said I am new to this lol... Was having a real bad couple hours and had to put my. Phone down... Hope u can sleep... I don't do much of that...
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Thanks that was not lame I have never had good luck lol... I just believe that I am here to make the world better for others... I believe that there r givers and takers (with varying degrees of mix in between I. E. A person may be 25% giver and 75% taker)... Takers of the extreme r also referred to as narcissistic... Takers should keep to the takers but they need the givers to survive... The givers ( also referred to as enabler) r usually left starving for the things they need to survive like love attention security support and the taker thrives like a demon stealing a soul... Now if a giver finds a giver that's amazing... Hold back a bit... U should quickly learn to spot them... I knew my new husband was a taker... He just hid it until after the wedding... And he hid it well... I truly know in my heart that I have to walk away from this... And I hope u will figure things out... I'm here if u want to keep talking... Will be back read the link it's an article on givers takers and marchers (the mixed group)
https://www.lemonade.com/blog/psychology-givers-takers-matchers-2/
