Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Is it possible to find my biological parents?
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Is it possible to find my biological parents?
It has been years already when I realized I am adopted. My foster parents told me about this when I was still 7 years old. They decided to adopt me when I was still a baby when they knew my foster mom is incapable of producing a baby. They saw an ad about adoption in a foreign page and felt that I am the answer to their needs.
Now, I’m looking for my biological parents. I already asked permission from my foster parents and they gave me such wholeheartedly. Is it possible for me to see them again?
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@anakelly23 said in Is it possible to find my biological parents?:
ents. I already asked permission from my foster parents and they gave me such wholeheartedly. Is it possible for me to see them again?
I think everything is possible. I´ve heard stories that sound crazy, but were actually true. It won´t be easy though, and it´s even harder when there´s no clue about how to start... Good luck in your search!
Love,
H
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@helena27f pm me
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@anakelly23
There are few ways.- Ask your parents from where they have adopted you, go to that place and get the record of ur parents. I know those people won't give you details easily but if you can give them a good deal they will surely give u details.
- Make a add about you and run a campaign on social media or contact media person if they can publish about you in newspaper
I guess 1st way is much better than 2nd one.
P.S.- Have a wonderful life ahead
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@helena27f hi Helena follow me
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Good luck, anyway.
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@anakelly23
Asking a random stranger on a random website is the place to get legit answer yeah. Fuck the authorities and people that have access to others' identities :'DYou guys are a joke
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Some adoptions (like mine) the biological parents didn't want to be found/contacted. Be prepared for that.
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@anakelly23 pm me ill help you out
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The DNA you got is from you're biological parents, you're biological parents has Information Report. In that report is all kind of information, also about DNA. these reports are somewhere hided, They were used to solve murder, or a lost body. by the CIA they got the reports. but the problem is you cant read them, it's a privately information. But by an adopt center they got one, you could ask those people. Possibilty is low, but why would you find you're biological parents? they gave up on you for a reason.