Posts made by xoyee

@WHAT2020 OK good :)

Yesterday was an immense victory, during the global day of prayer with Rev. Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and pastor Benny Hinn 3 billion people were connected online for this purpose to pray concerning the unknown enemy (Corona virus) that tends to take lives and leave many frightened, caged in their homes,...it was a wonderful meeting and experience in the spirit realm and the devil has no chance of winning.
Our faith is built on a solid rock and we're unshaken, we are Victors in Christ Jesus.

@WHAT2020 lol you can try to use it again...

@Nul thanks, you too.

Hello beautiful people, a lot has been happening around the world, with the current trend in virus spread to fear of the unknown. I've been thinking a lot lately on how to contribute to or help people become better and it's a bit complex but doable I believe, with the help of others with same interest and positive thoughts.
The world maybe battling with corornavirus right now but I tell you, the worst virus we need to battle with first is within us, lives inside of us,...and that's our mindset, our thoughts. I believe in solving a problem from the root, not from the middle or top.
To start this journey, I created a profile on KiK, as I noticed that's what most people prefer to use, my user name is Xoyei. If you feel interested in being part of something that counts positively and that can help change lives Pls KiK me using my user name above let's rub minds together.
Pls don't be ashamed or feel too small to contribute, everyone is special in their own way and has something important to bring, if you've ever thought of doing something right for others then this is an opportunity for you.
Thanks for taking that bold step :)

@WHAT2020 thanks :)

@Maple-Syrup-_1 My THOUGHT about this site is...
" A REFUGE".
It's like an abandoned safe house where people of different Caliber, status, characters, habits and sense of humor meet to find shelter.
An abandoned house cannot be blocked cos it almost doesn't exist to some people, but you know what they say...." the corner stone ends up becoming chief stone".
For some reasons, I believe a lot of people will turn a new leave from this site, I believe some will find a purpose to life, some will even find comfort from being here,...this corner stone will in no time become the chief stone.

Besides the negative and sex demanding people what can you see?
Focus on the bright side, ignore the dark side, it'll fade away soon.

Have you come to the point of your life where you just feel like giving up is the best option? Like quitting is the best thing for you right now?
Well I've got news for you...
Those who quite are called "Losers", "Failures".
If you quite now you'll never win, you'll never get to your goal, you'll never achieve your dreams so keep moving on, it's better to move slowly than not move at all.
While holding on do the right thing, change your attitude towards life generally but positively, work on your mindset, build your inner strength and confidence, do not follow other people's path, make a path way let others follow,...
The reason and importance of patience in life towards anything, is to build the right attitude and believe in ourselves while we wait for the result.
Consistency is an attitude and an attribute that has been proven to always lead people to their desired destination... GET IT!
Focus is an important key that opens locked and jammed doors.... GET IT!
Get wisdom, get understanding, keep yourself armed with the right information, they will take you far above your peers and in life generally.

@Johannes-Julians sounds good :)

@Corpse hahahahaha so do I, my baby face is hereditary and I'm not scared or apologetic about it, infact I love it lol...i think you should too, it makes people unable to guess your age...

@Johannes-Julians hey there, I understand you well, however, you don't have to be scared ok.
I have learnt over time to express myself how ever I want to either in the open or not without taking people's judgment about me so personal, the truth is that people will always talk good or bad about so try not to think of what people will say, instead build your confidence in expressing yourself without feeling ashamed or apologetic about it. Even when you think you're not making sense say it with confidence, sooner or later your non-sense will begin to make sense to people.
You need to also start accepting being criticized, it will help you learn and know more, there's no success without failure",
You passing through criticism and stuffs like that is like passing a sword through fire, when it's done the sword becomes sharper and shines brighter...that's how you shine when you're able to successfully pass through challenges of any kind.

@Huh then stop thinking too much, stop allowing your mind roam unto dreadful thoughts.
The truth is, when you keep having such imaginations continuously, they begin to happen for real, your imaginations begin to express itself in the real life to you or the people you know or love.
Such thing can and might make you feel powerful and special but it's just the devil using your mind and your imaginations against you, I read a book once tittle " the power of your mind" you should find it and read it.
Our mind is a very powerful tool that can make us or destroy us depending on how we use it, the devil knows how powerful our minds are so he's always at alert waiting for whose imaginations he can use as a tool to carry out he's evil works, he works with our words, minds, thoughts and our imaginations and that's why we must keep them positive always.
Whenever you notice such imaginations coming again pinch yourself and snap out of it, divert your thoughts to something positive instead, stay on it for a while, it could be a happy moment with your friends or family, just stay on it until you're sure that imagination is gone.
If that doesn't work so well for you cultivate a positive habit like reading a book (a good one), singing, praying, playing an instrument...just something that will distract such imagination. If you continue like that, sooner or later you won't be having such imaginations again because you'll become too busy doing something positive with your life rather than being idle and having wrong or bad imaginations.

It's 12:17am here in my country and I'm suppose to be sleeping but my spirit was propelled to write this here, so I had to.

I may have spoken on or about being positive instead being negative here once or twice but a whole lot of people don't seem to understand the the extent to which they endanger themselves by being or talking negative.

Let me give some examples to help burst your understanding of what I am talking about,...
If as a guy a girl walks up to you and says " hey man you look good, I like your boobs"... What would be your response?
First you'll be shocked cos you have no boobs and you're not a girl so you'll rebuke her right?
Good! That is the same thing with negativity.
Negativity is telling one what they're not or making one believe in something they're not,..got it?
If a negative thought comes to you or someone tells you something that sounds "not like you" to you, the best thing to do is rebuke the thought by speaking positively or reject such thought and or stop listening to the person, that way you're guarding your thoughts from "dirt" so to say, it is important that we keep our minds fresh, clean and renewed always, ready to receive positive information that will help build us and take us forward in life, negative words or talks will only take you backwards and bring you more harm than good.
When faced with challenges, troubles or situations, instead of speaking about it to other people who might at the end not help you, have you tried speaking to it? Speak to the challenge not about it. How do you speak to it? Confess positively towards such situation, for example,..
When I have an headache most times, instead of complaining about it I just say " I'm healthy, I'm strong, I refuse to be sick!" and then I just carry on with whatever I was doing, sooner or letter I forget I ever had that headache.
Words are very powerful, and sickness are spiritual, learn to use them either to your advantage or your disadvantage, either to build you or harm you...the choice is yours to make.
It's takes consistency and focus to cause change, so don't say it once and just because it didn't work you give up, no! Keep saying it until you see a change,...that's how much it took for negativity to effect changes in your life as well.

@Huh you're scared of your imaginations?

@hbentley9090 hey there, if you keep being scared of the fact your heart might get broken then it just might actually get broken.
Ok here's an illustration I want you to understand.
Let's say you buy a bird right, she's so beautiful and smart you just want to keep her by your side all day long. Now that's not a problem for you but it's a big problem for the bird,..why? Because the day that bird mistakenly let's lose she will fly away and never come back. The reason is, while she was with you, she felt safe but not free and every bird wants to be free, so if you're so sacred of being broken hearted then you need to start with at least one relationship ok. Keep in mind that " it might not end up the way you want it but try it anyways, free up your mind, change your mindset towards" being heart broken",...no one has ever achieved success without failing first so start building up your heart, yourself for success by failing once or twice now.
Tell yourself you might fail, but also tell yourself you will get up stronger, that mindset pushes you closer to your point of success everyday.
There's nothing to be scared of about FEAR, when you give too much thoughts to the word "FEAR" it takes the better part of your life.

@anonymous92 It's my pleasure to be here, thank you too for taking out time to read and at least understand what I say, I'm really glad I could be of help to you and every other person in here or out there lol.
Knowledge and positive information is not to be hoarded or kept a secret...so I believe", my purpose here and anywhere I find myself on earth is to share what I know or have learnt and help as many people as I can.
It's OK if you think you about your girl once or twice, but such thoughts shouldn't bring you down they should take you a step closer to your dreams and goals.

@anonymous92 you're right, the fear of losing our dear ones can lead us to depression and the truth is I've also been there.
Let me tell you a short story and how I managed to get out of it...
I was born an extrovert but lived like an introvert for years because of circumstances and fear of the unknown, I'm also an extremist so when I care about someone I could go the extra length to do anything for them.
My life as an introvert sucked big time I can tell you that, I didn't have much friends because I was scared of being ridiculed, talked down, laughed at etc. I was a smart kid but no one would know becos I didn't look like one or even spoke like one, I excluded myself from the world and built a shell around myself, I thought I was doing the right thing, I thought I safe guarding myself but I clearly was punishing myself for my foolishness.
After years of being in the bondage I created for myself I happen to meet someone one day who became a good friend. We became really close because we understood each other so well that even our families didn't understand us that well. I knew her shortly before she got married but I was there for her, I stayed with her when her husband got transferred and she was alone, I was there when she gave birth to her very cute son, I helped her so much like she was my blood sister, took her son like he was mine and we were just always happy until one day they had to relocate and so did I, and that was the beginning of our separation.
We always had issues but solved them when we were together but when we separated the issues became worse as though we never knew each other. A lot of misunderstandings and problems,...it became too much....to cut the long story short,..today we nearly even speak to ourselves,....we grew out of our friendship and now we don't even know who we are.
The truth is, people will come in and out of your life but it beholds of you to maintain and control what they do with your life and how you let them control your emotions.
She helped me become who I really am (an extrovert) and that I'm forever grateful for, and I really wish I brings us back together again but I have tried all I possibly can but nothing worked.
Something's are better left alone, if its meant to happen again nature will find a way to make it happen.
Try not become too emotional when it comes to people, try not to become too attached, too expectant, those things hurt a lot and can lead one to intense depression.

@TRain lolzzz

@JAMESSBOND I used to be scared of snakes too once in my life, whenever I saw a snake in a movie, I was sure to dream about it that night and it scared hell out of me but, one day I went with my dad to one of our houses that was under construction at the time, I was about 13/14yrs then, while he was with some workers a had to go pee, while I was there peeing I saw a long snake crawling away, close to the wall going inside the house, with the fear of seeing it and the fact that I was really tired of being scared I ran out and grabbed a stone, angrily threw it the snake and that was the end.
Since that day till today I can say they're scared of me and not me being scared of them anymore. That act alone took the fear away from me, it gave me a sense of boldness,I realised that snakes are only reptiles and am human, I can't be scared of them.

@mikeJB wow! That's really scary,....what did you do?