@Bela-Hella lol I'm scared of covid-19 too, but the more I get sacred of it the more I restrain myself from going about my daily activities and stuff which doesn't actually make sense because its not even in the state I am yet lolz
So I just thought to stop being scared for a moment, stop thinking of it and just live a normal daily life without fear.
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RE: What are you scared of?
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RE: our society needs help...
@depressed_0 hello there, the society and how it operates shouldn't have anything to do with your happiness, try not to expect the society to live your life for u or make you who you need to be, you are you and so is the society.
Truth is, if you don't help and stand up for yourself nobody will, the society won't even know you exist until you start doing something that counts, that's why successful people are famous and celebrated by the society and everyone.
You're too special and important to ruin your yourself or your life for a society or someone who cares only for a particular set of people, you need to start building up your confidence, your self worth, your life for greater purpose, for a greater good, to become someone to other people instead of the other way round, that way nobody will ever get to you, talk you down or make you feel sad or depressed, depression is only a state of mind, you can come out of if you choose to,...just tell yourself that you're not depressed, believe in your own words and decide to get out of it.
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What are you scared of?
Have you noticed that every time you believe or become scared of something that's when it actually happens of controls your life?
What is it that scares you about life, other people, yourself or your family??
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RE: The spiritual and the physical....
@Zas Lol good talk, you sure have a lot to say...
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RE: The spiritual and the physical....
@anonymous92 hmmmm you know, if I had the opportunity I would like to see you face to face and have a good talk with you.
Physics, no matter how much it tries will never be able to solve the puzzle behind the physical and spiritual realm, and neither would science.
A natural man can never and will never be able to comprehend the things of the spirit simply by mixing up some kind of chemicals or coming up with theories or philosophies, but a natural man who becomes really spiritual might be able to understand the things of the spirit. In the Bible it is written " ye are gods and children of the most high God ". This saying means a lot that I can't explain here because its really broad, its quite unfortunate that we humans have no understanding of the power we have to create and make things happen, ( not mere physical things).....this is the reason why for example, one who wants to have extra ordinary powers either consults an oracle ' witch doctor' or goes to God following God's teachings and word. How do you think a pastor is able to heal someone who is near death?...the power lies in the spiritual realm.
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Negative thoughts versus positive thoughts.
Can you write down how many ways a negative confession, statement and thought has helped you compared to the how much a positive one has? Sometimes I just spend time going through the topics written by different people on here, and I wonder if these are really young people who are suppose to have positive minds and thoughts or just some really old set of people who have nothing left to do in life?
The truth is, the main and true reason why our world is and might remain the way it is, is because of our mind set, our minds have been clouded with so much negativity and dirtiness that even the smallest positive thought that comes around us is immediately turned into negativity. Except we change our mind set, evil will continue to prevail, hurricane will continue to happen, tornado, floods, famine, hunger, strife, wickedness, killings, terrorism, viruses of unknown and knows sources diseases, sickness, misunderstanding between nations and countries will continue to take place.
Even the bible stated: " The evil that men do live after them", truth is, this evil lives with us, in us now....but we are the only ones to stop it ourselves, only if we can change our mind set and do things right.
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RE: Boyfriend or husband?
@anonymous92 well said. I very well understand your point of explanation and everything, however, I believe that marriage is not just suppose to be sacred, but it is sacred according to the bible. What marriages provide is way more than " social sanction and legal security", and the fact that " people are scared to cheat because they're scared of being exposed" is as well as I know not the main reason why people don't cheat, it may be part of but if I'm to speak as a Christian I'd say " only those who are not good Christians stay in marriage based on the above quote, but a good Christian who knows he's or her root stay in marriage because they understand what marriage means to Christ, they follow and understand the teachings of Christ about marriage and do as He (Jesus) says.
As for relationships, one cannot be lagally or forcefully be tied down to a boy or a girl except such one has made commitment by way of a proposal, introduction to the family or truly bound by love.
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RE: Boyfriend or husband?
@Mr-Bey-Junior pls be careful of what you post on my wall, its not proper to just post inappropriate things here.
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RE: Boyfriend or husband?
@Mr-Bey-Junior I don't like this, pls take it out, y you fond of posting crap on my wall? Its scary and I don't like it here, take it somewhere else pls.
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RE: Boyfriend or husband?
@Futushimo hahaha cheating can come from any side, single or married
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Boyfriend or husband?
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Finding new friends.
Today I want to tell you about a friend I met recently.
Her name Abigail and she is a fashion designer, very resourceful, creative and enthusiastic, she's really pretty, nice and has a heart of gold like mine ;) its only been a week since we met and became friends but when we see and talk its almost like we've known ourselves forever...so amazing right.
Abigail and I are in the choir and her voice is golden, her smile is very beautiful and contagious, she's like an open book with no end...you just want to keep reading :)
Its really amazing to find someone like Abigail, she puts makes me smile and laugh whenever we're together, chatting or on calls,..she could make anyone smile out their teeth, she's a really happy person and I'm so happy to have her as my friend. She's my best friend now :)Do you think I'm being too quick in judging her personality or I'm just really good at blending and reading people fast?
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RE: What is your opinion on this? True or false?
@Zas hmmmm this is experience speaking, really nice.
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RE: What is your opinion on this? True or false?
@Futushim nice write up, seems like you've had the experience with each of these kind of friends. However, I get your point and I understand where you're coming from.
If you read my post well you'll notice I said "fake friends" not friends.
The reason I agreed to it in my comment was because I said "fake friends", that doesn't mean I would prefer to be alone than have friends, hope you understand what I mean.
I personally definitely have friends, as a matter of fact I have just two friends who I can talk with anytime any day and they're not fake. -
RE: What is your opinion on this? True or false?
For me its not just about what I think but what I have experienced.
I have over times and situations faced disappointments, rejections and throwback from people I called friends, people who claimed to know me and understand my personality but in the end its all for the show and benefits.
So I have come to understand and agree that yes indeed, it is way better to be alone and be contented than have fake friends around you. I have also learnt the fact that a lot of people come into your life for their own selfish reasons. -
RE: What is your opinion on this? True or false?
@somthing-orother I couldn't agree more bruh, especially " being content with who you are",...that is key.
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RE: Do you have the nerves to become a president?
@mikeJB ok, following what you've said, if you were in his shoes what would you have done differently?