@cjko Allow me to express my thoughts on the matter like this.
If you have to think about it. They are not "the one."
Since my wife died I have told my friends this. I'm not looking for anyone. I'm not against finding anyone, but I am not actively looking. If by chance I happen to wake up in several years and she is still in my bed then I guess I have found someone. However if ever wonder wether or not I am in a relationship or wether or not it's working then it most definitely is NOT. As in not going to happen. If I am lucky enough to have another serious relationship you can damn well bet that there's no way one single iota of drama or BS will be part of it. Bring it and you will be as gone as yesterday's sunrise.
Life is fleeting and short. You are only going to have 1 chance at it. So make the best of it and be happy.
Posts made by wet teri
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RE: How do you know if she's/he's the one? :)
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RE: Does every problem in life make the person stronger?
@theKing the wisdom comes from the knowledge that was gained as well as how it was acquired and how it's used. I didn't mean that problems make you better, but they should give you some insight towards the appropriate response to eliminate the problem.
No that's not what I meant either.
The wisdom comes from the knowledge that you gain when you deal with the problem, however you choose to do so.
I'm too tired for this tonight. -
RE: Does every problem in life make the person stronger?
@theKing but as you said in your last sentence. "Problems change you". Unless they are complete idiots they should at least realize that they are unable to resolve the problem. That alone is knowledge.
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RE: Does every problem in life make the person stronger?
@Alan-Blake I believe that it should make them wiser. At least if they learn anything from solving the problem.
How you deal with the problems that life throws your way helps to define who you are as a person. Problems are one of the tools that God (my opinion) uses to mold your persona. -
RE: Western movies // suggestions
@Vanessa-Snow Ned Kelly might not qualify as a western as it's set in Australia however it's good and seems like a western.
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RE: Western movies // suggestions
@Vanessa-Snow the jack bull. With John Goodman.
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RE: AS THE SAYING GOES.......
@DarkIce69 depends. I might just be in one of those moods and I would go ahead and suck in a big lungful of water and get it over with. After all there is little point in prolonging the inevitable.
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RE: anyone down to chat about anythingggg
@DBEAN01 somebody hit me up now I am so ready for anything
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RE: Anyone wanna chat
@Toniii I've been waiting for you to finish the sentence you started. I was hoping to find out what you are since the sentence began "I'm"...
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RE: Can you honestly be honest?
@Zen00
About 98-99% truthful.
Almost like asking are you asleep?
I generally don't lie. I. Have however learned that certain people can't handle the truth and some people don't deserve the pain that the truth would bring. But in my relationship I am 100% truthful and honest. I dearly miss my wife. I might not have always volunteered information but if she asked me I would tell her honestly. Also if she was going to hear it from anyone she would hear it from me first. -
RE: RANDOM STUFF.....UGH!
@DarkIce69 when you get sick and nervous whenever that person is not around and you think about them.
Love is caring and respecting someone irregardless of differences and doing what you can to improve their life or situation. Listening and spending time is a joy and not a task. Empathy not sympathy. Doing your best to make their heart smile as often as appropriate. -
RE: Reply with 3 words 🤷🏾♂️
@ODIN on the way.
Funds transferred back.
What's this for?
I spent it.
Who is this?
I never received
In the mail.
Bwah Ha Ha.
Halfsies?
It's about time bitch.
Finally my turn.
Fuk you buddy.
Here it is.
All yours baby.
Where's your proof?
Thanks for lunch.
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RE: Random chat problem any body else?
@wet-teri my apologies if I am posting this in the wrong place.
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Random chat problem any body else?
I'm having a problem with the person that is supposed to be selected to chat loading on the chat screen. Ideas anyone?
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RE: TWS VALENTINES!!!
@Katherinee
I'm not positive but I think all of the tws users that I know to be female are married, under age or otherwise spoken for.If by chance I am incorrect I do by here announce that I would love to have a date with a female that is between the ages of 18 and ?? 60. Feel free to pm me for details.
No drama puhleez. Life's too short for all that stupid crap. Let's have some fun and maybe give them something to talk about. -
RE: let's just settle this for good.........
@unknowncat
Cat think that they are superior however pound per pound the dog (as long as it is not deterred by the first scratch) can easily kill the cat with 1 bite. As a general rule dogs display more intelligence. This is not to say that cats are not intelligent because they are. In fact they are so intelligent they can't be bothered by our human request for them to show any....
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RE: Attention Please to the Community. This is on behalf of TalkWithStranger
@Durwin good to hear that. And well nm about the practices of less seasoned
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RE: So how was your day without TWS like?
@pe7erpark3r actually during the down time I was trying to check my PM's because I expected to hear from someone. Since they only recently followed and I don't remember the user name I wonder if a) they sent me a message and what it said?
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RE: Attention Please to the Community. This is on behalf of TalkWithStranger
@Durwin
Thanks for the update. As people are inclined to say "excrement occurs".
It also flows downhill.My deepest condolences to you and yours for your loss. I will send flowers in the email.
Seriously I hope nothing was damaged, or important was lost.