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@mikeJB said in is there a Dr in the house?:

ok you tell me what you think i have:

ALWAYS tired/constant yawning

I've had that. Stopped since I'm doing more sports. Can only advise you to do weights. At home maybe with yayog or some similar system. Doing weights is the best way to lose weight, for after the workout you continue to loose the next 48 hours. Running/jogging and the like only burns fat for max. 1 hour after the workout. You literally would have to run 24x as much time as you have to do weights to get the same result.

gaining extra weight even when i dont eat that much

This starts around age 27 - 30 and grows only worse with every year :joy:

constipation that might go into a week

The proper diet for anybody needs testing. All bodys are different. Sadly doctor's seem to know nuthin' about how nutrition actually works, the body is way too complex a system, they haven't started understanding the start of it. Only the really heavy things like cancer or broken legs or stuff like that, do they have a real hang on...

another symptom...i always feel cold even in a hot stuffy house

This one I have too. For me it's genetical. My mom's got it too. My brother doesn't.

So, I'm not telling you to give up figuring out what this is. Keep testing, asking, thinking, learning. However my advices might help you with that.

First of all, take your time – in case there is no real reason not to. Don't fear something you haven't actually let close to yourself, whatever it is, pregnancy or even being a mother. You know, you might think one day: "he/she would be 3 years now" and you might be very sad, that you didn't give your child the chance to live. Point is, take your time, let the idea close, don't make an uninformed and un-thought-out choice. Just let it sink in. Look at the pros and cons, let them sink in too. Things might look scary one day, but once you've really taken your time to look at them from different angles, they might no longer do.

And be aware, that an abortion is dangerous too, in many aspects. I've heard quite a few people who aborted speak first hand, and they think the bad effects are real. I heard some too who have none, and they attest to that. I believe both sides, so I'm certain the risks are real, but you also have a good chance of little pain in the aftermath. This page gives a list of risks https://foundationsoflife.org/facts-about-abortion/risks-about-abortion/ (Disclaimer: I don't know that page, I just googled it...).

And also you should know that there are very capable and well funded organisations, that help with adoption and things like that. In the western world, if you just look, you are actually in warm and capable hands, if you wish to give your child a chance to live – without having to face all the consequences (of being a mother), except of the joi and pain of pregnancy. Seriously, if you want to give your child up for adoption, you don't have to worry. There are so many couples who would love to have a child, so many more, than there are childern up for adoption. So if you go that path, you certaly won't have any bad financial consequences...