Posts made by Pamela

What if you're gay already? Does it cancel the gayness out or double it? Can I extend my lifetime by taking it to its highest exponent?

@TM I'm not even going to dignify those questions with a response. For someone who claims to have a purity-oriented mindset, you seem pathologically obsessed with my sexual life, which is far less varied than you credit it to be. I wouldn't be surprised if your fascination with dicks (prosthetic and otherwise) reflected your actual inclinations.

First of all, people don't stop noticing attractive people just because they're in a relationship. That's perfectly natural and has nothing to do with your looks or your partner's ability to remain faithful. However, one thing is to steal a glance at a passerby, another is to gawk or give them a lingering stare, which makes everyone involved uncomfortable. You've already brought up the subject, and he's made no effort to accommodate your request. Are you willing to tolerate this behavior in order to preserve a relationship where you feel disrespected, or will you break the cycle? Nobody can make that choice for you.

1. New Zealand (partly because of the stunning scenery, partly because I'm a huge Tolkien nerd)

2. Turkey (I want to visit both Istanbul and Capadoccia)

3. The Scottish Highlands

Bonus destinations: Kyoto, Morocco, Iceland

My takeaway is that you're pursuing a long-term relationship with someone who's not ready to commit due to deep-seated mental issues. Are you emotionally equipped and willing to take this arrangement for what it is rather than what you want it to be? Everything that you've mentioned till now seems to be indicative that you aren't. Keep in mind that there's no quick fix, and the situation isn't going to change overnight (if it ever does), so you can either adjust your expectations or leave while you still are on good terms.

She informed me of a guy that he manager at her job is trying to hook her up with and she told me she wasn't interested but because of the no official " label" of her and I she tells the dude she isn't interested in dating him. But the guy is persistent and keeps showing up to her work and texting her and because we aren't really official but she basically treats my like a significant other Im in a position where I don't really have any say over the whole thing.

Your ladyfriend's acquaintance refuses to leave her alone even though she's manifestly turned him down (saying you're not interested should be enough for someone to back off, mind you, no need to make clear you already "belong to" another guy). This is not a call for you to step in like a knight armed with jealousy. She should reach out to HR or get the authorities involved.

It's extremely easy to remain anonymous under a username and picture that won't be associated with your offline identity. You don't need the advantages that come with not being subject to a registration process, and that prevent us (moderators) from carrying out our job efficiently. Don't want to face the backlash that might come with expressing unpopular opinions? Use a throwaway account.

We may eventually become desensitized to violent & graphic contents, sadism, attacks and hate speech when they get too common. This may make many people more resilient in real life.

How is that a good idea? A resilient person isn't one who cannot feel or respond normally to negative stimuli but one who can take enormous amounts of pain and bounce back seamlessly. You don't build resilient individuals by turning them into cold-hearted apathetic beasts, you do so by giving them the tools they need to heal.

Everything, Everywhere All At Once
12 Monkeys
Children Of Men
Under The Skin

Slightly off-topic, I'm unfamiliar with Cronenberg's body horror, so if anyone could watch Crimes of the Future and let me know if I should spare myself a cinema ticket, I'd be forever grateful.

That's because you're not getting new dms.

I don't believe that incest between adult validly-consenting siblings that take the necessary precautions to prevent procreation is in itself immoral. Sure, it's repulsive, abnormal and I personally feel no desire to engage in it, but there has to be a compelling argument for it being wrong, other than "it's gross."

Mentally preparing myself to be shunned over an actual unpopular opinion.

Danse Macabre is also my personal favourite.

@Sasha257 Skirts should be knee-length at least. You are there to pay respect to the deceased and console the family in their grief, not to draw attention to your attire. If you can't afford to buy a new one, choose a different garment.
"All-black" is usually not an imperative, so you may still be able to wear a skirt you own as long as it's plain and somber in color.

Send me a paycheck. Also, assuming that this person is the unwelcome target of your sexual advances, a legal change of name may help.

Happy birthday, mother of dragons!!! 🥳

(Let's gloss over my inability to compose a creative wish). Here's my cake supply.

Insightful, relevant, 100% accurate content. Thanks for making my day.

The feature to remove undesired followers hasn't yet been developed. At best you could request them to unfollow you, but whether or not they choose to attend your wishes falls under their freedom.