Posts made by No one knows me

If you need to talk. I know what you talking about and it is so hard to create healthy boundaries with you family or in your home

@Pink-Angel it’s hard sometimes to get through all the things life throws at us. Be patient with yourself and take things one problem at a time. Give yourself time to feel what you’re feeling. You can’t change the way you feel. You just have to make your own path to a new kind of happiness

I hope the best for you.

You’re far away. But I can be a good friend if you need one. I have a lot of life experience so you can talk to me about anything you need

Lol. I don’t understand why people say they want to talk and then when you reply they ignore you. I don’t get this world

@FluffyyKupKakes loved what you said. Some people just don’t get how much their ignorance can damage others. Well put.

Yeah what do you expect. There are not a lot of places to meet people when you’re middle aged. All the support groups are cut off at age 25. So please tell me where men should go to find someone. Especially if they’re like me and want a man. Don’t judge others based on age. That was the type of crap I did when I was a kid and guess what I regret it everyday. Ageism is what is hurting so many elderly people why not say just let them all die after age 45. Seriously don’t spread your hate. One day you could have kids and they might want to be with the same sex. Trust me no matter how religious and outspoken you are against it. Your hate will never change someone’s love for another.

Really where are you from? I’m in Utah,USA.
I’m searching for a good friend and hopefully more.

@Woman143
Sorry that happened to you. Scammers and manipulators are the worst. I am easy to trust also. There are people that just spend their days trying to get money out of those that have a good heart. It happens to more people than is reported. When I was in a similar situation and they tried to extort money from me. I told them he’ll no. So they sent nudes to all my relatives. So my whole family saw the most private part of me. Don’t trust anyone if there are any red flags. Especially online. I’ve been proposed to by a scammer. They really do their homework also. Be careful. And to get even just tell everyone he knows how he has to mooch money off of you. Trust me nothing hurts a man’s ego like not being able to care for themselves and their loved ones.
Good luck.

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Or female?

The purpose of life is to spread love and happiness through out the lives of those you connect with. My purpose has unfortunately always been to be abused and taken advantage of by those that are supposed to protect you. My purpose has always been. Is counting down the minutes until I can not have to be haunted by the past. Finally move on and find a new purpose

My family has decided not to believe me when I tell them I was hurt by my brother in law. They have actually called me a liar and made me feel guilty about what happened to me. I don’t think I’ll ever forgive my family for making me spend the holidays and family time with someone that abused me and then to have them not believe you hurts even more. I’m tired of not being believed. I’m tired of having to try to convince my family that I’m telling the truth. I don’t want to be a victim anymore

@vanteindo
I’m really sorry that you feel that way about yourself because someone put that seed into your head and it grew. Sibling rivalry is ridiculous. There’s always one person that believes that they are better than the other one one. It’s like my brother he believes that I lie about certain things that happened to me because it involves his partner. So your twin is like my brother meaning that they are willing to live in such denial about who they really are just so that they can make someone else feel small. Don’t listen to what they say to you. You’re the only one that can better your life. The past doesn’t matter anymore. The future in the present are all that you have to look forward to so figure out if fighting about the pastors, how you wanna spend your time.

I feel the same way. I really hurts when do you actually hello have people in your life and they’re the reason that you feel like you are nonexistent. It’s hard when you have been hurt by so many people and you can’t tell anyone what’s happening to you. To feel like you don’t exist. Also means not being listened to or not being trusted or valued as a human being. When you feel like you don’t exist, you don’t care what happens to you do you don’t care if people hurt you and take a vantage of you. I don’t think not existing is the bad part. it’s the existing without anyone knowing who you really are.

My brothers husband hurt me really bad when I was a teenager. His newest husband did the same thing. I wish I could’ve pressed charges but they both passed away. So now I’m here holding onto this shame forever

Why is it so hard to get trust from your loved ones? How to get them to believe you?