@Sup I appreciate your thanks, sincerely. But hold on to that, and let's see if she takes or even considers any of my thoughtful advice. If so then I will thank her, and I'll accept your thanks, and will do so with much gratitude.
Posts made by Lazz
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RE: Should I tell mom
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RE: Tell me 3 things you remember about kindergarten.
@ODIN I vividly remember the "classroom" with the drab grey-green paint, and pictures and toys and playthings all around. I remember the kids, who were my classmates, some where friends some were not, and the two girls who liked to take me on recess around the corner so they could take turns kissing me.
Lastly, I remember naptime, on a store-bought small roll-up rug, with some cookies and milk, and the teacher's soft-spoken voice. Many times I actually did catch myself drifting off, listening to her stories.
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RE: How do you get over someone you love....?
@Angel94647 Also, there's the saying that time heals all wounds, and it's honestly true. Time passes, feeling fade. The pain, the love, every day even the hurt is another day behind. It won't happen overnight, but day by day concentrate on you, on making you the kind of person you want to be, and the one who will love and appreciate all that you are will surely come your way, and I imagine if he's the right one, will never want to be without you. Give it time, it'll be well worth the wait. Give it time. And you'll only be the better for it, and so too will he be, with YOU!
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RE: How do you get over someone you love....?
@Angel94647 Truthfully, I hope you find someone BETTER than him, the one who abandoned you in your time of most need. That was so wrong. A "real man" wouldn't even THINK of doing that to someone, especially one they care deeply for. I'd suggest, make peace with it, and with yourself. Put the past in the past, and keep an open mind and see what happens next. Try new things. Go out. Meet people. That person my cross your path when you least expect it, or when you're not even looking. Someone as special as you deserves someone who will be as special To you, For you, and Because of you. Agreed?
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RE: Should I tell mom
@imJulie Whatever went on, it NEEDS to stop, NOW. If something happened once, chances are it will happen again, and again, unless you do the right thing, get others involved who can help and protect you, and see that something like that NEVER happens to you AGAIN. Be strong, let your voice be heard! Tell someone who can HELP. Alright? Please do at least that. So this can stop before it goes any further. Please, for your own sake
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RE: Should I tell mom
@imJulie Now, I'm sure you may not want to stir up chaos for you and your family, but this is something very serious. NO-ONE, especially NOT someone in your own family, like your brother, has any right to assault your body or even TOUCH you in a sexual way without your consent. If you were sleeping, and woke up to being touched, THAT'S without your consent. I doubt it would be considered rape, unless doctors check, and find it was. Since you were sleeping you said you don't know if something else happened, so it would be for the best to FIND OUT. Let someone of authority know. Tell a teacher, or counselor, even your doctor, or a Police officer. I'm sure they can help you find the best course of action, they're trained how to handle things like what you had happen to you.
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RE: Should I tell mom
@imJulie Regardless of how you got there, if your Brother was awake he should've sent you back OUT. If he was touching you, intimately, that's totally inappropriate! But, I'm stuck wondering, why were you naked? Do you usually sleep naked, or was that the first time? I'd guess you are a younger person, but regardless of age, that's starting to sound a lot like borderline abuse. If that's too strong a term, then it could also be considered molestation, and unwanted sexual attention. Could be Police should be involved, for something that wrong. A talk with your mom might not be the best idea, unless she's an understanding woman. Most moms have a hard time thinking their child could be doing terrible things, so it's a tough subject. If you're in school you could also report it to a trusted teacher or counselor.
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RE: Should I tell mom
@imJulie You'd know from past history if that would be something your mom would be willing to hear you out about, or not. I'd suggest use your own best judgement, and make a good thoughtful decision, and very importantly, choose your words carefully, if you DO talk to her, so as not to give any wrong ideas. Be very clear, open, honest, and truthful. That would be my opinion. Wish you well, and hopefully this doesn't turn into anything very very wrong, if it hasn't already.
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RE: Climate breakdown is happening
@leelah I edited the last reply. Didn't want you to think the "No freaking way" was directed against your very valid statement on the climate. Was just surprised to see anything Colorado related being talked about. So...where'd you get that lottery ticket?
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RE: Climate breakdown is happening
@leelah Colorado?? No freaking way! Small world. I happen to be in Colorado. Patiently waiting for Hancock to be done & out. And hoping the next mayor will be more conscious of the views, beliefs, and needs of the people AND the planet, of course.
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RE: Wanna hear my sad sob story?
@bestporncams-xyz Wait, what? "...you are a good person because you are a good person." That doesn't make any kind of sense because that doesn't make any kind of sense. Grammatical redundancies, aren't they just so much fun?
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RE: Wanna hear my sad sob story?
@leelah You're just getting started. You still have your sense of humor, and what would life be without? Looks good on you. You come across as being a dedicated "read-between-the-lines" type. It's a talent. Keep the humor handy, it's a cornerstone of your foundation. Now build on that!
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RE: Attraction . Fatal. Harmful. Hopeless. Irresistible. Or.......
@wet-teri Indeed! I whole-hardheartedly agree. Profound, chaotic, beautiful, terrible and every other thing one could ever possibly imagine. It's what a person decides to do with those impossibly Strong emotions that makes all the difference.
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RE: Someone tell me a joke
@TheGoddess Last week I bought some shoes from a drug dealer. Don't know what they were laced with, but I was tripping for days
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RE: This legend needs your help!!!!
@JamesTheAlpha You can DO it!!! Wait, I mean you CAN'T do it! Ah fudge, you know what I mean, right? Achieve every goal, man. Word to the power
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RE: Attraction . Fatal. Harmful. Hopeless. Irresistible. Or.......
@wet-teri Wonderful to not wonder. Wonderfully stated, as well. Better, yes, I begin to see. Yours is an unmistakably valid point. I am unable to even try to disagree, not that I would. It would be terribly unwise, on my part. Thank you, much
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RE: What do you think?
@Aussiegirl28 Please, forgive me for correcting you, but it appears you have accidentally added the words "but not" and "at all" to your recent post. I do believe some minor editing on your part would be in order, to amend that. With respect, and sincerity. ~Lazz
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RE: What do you think?
@ai94ai I think you're braver than I. Never would I be caught standing knee deep in some huge death-trap body of water. You make it look almost fun, though. I mean, aside from the potential of being carried away and drowning, and etc...
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RE: I swam in my Bra and undies! Would you?
@Aussiegirl28 I don't think I would swim in your bra and undies. Me being a guy and all, probably not the best look, or fit.