@kat_15
well they're taking too damn long to show up. I've been waiting my whole life, and nobody fits that bill, unless they're a stalker hiding from me and secretly in love with me...and why didn't I get love as a child when my brothers did? was it because I'm not her biological kid? Why have I still not found a job. Why do most people tell me to grow up that mental illness is as fake as celebrities boobs? I could go on and on...
@wtfjudith mentally...sort of....physically...mostly....financially....fuck no... :(
useless, unloved, unwanted, ignored
@wtfjudith said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. What’s even worse in this situation is that this wasn’t a consensual act.. I get that sex isn’t viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you 😕
Thanks. I know...but I didn't want to be on the streets that winter...so.....yeah...
do what my friend did. Say a pic of a cute person you saw online doing a google search or something was you and asked the people on the site to send pics...it worked a few times for him...lol I was surprised
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
of course. I masticate both in public and at home on a daily basis.
(look it up you dorks if you don't know what it means)
...not really...kinda annoyed me a bit. that's part of the usual you'll be ok crap I usually hear. It's tiring and stressful. Like hearing I'll get a job soon. How can you be so damn sure I am. People who don't have to worry about jobs, where to sleep, finding food, can't usually understand that they're hurting you by promising you in a way that you'll get a job soon. Honestly, I know that if I came into a fortune and could stop worrying about the basics, I'd be helping my depression be cured. To me, a stable job is a holy grail of sorts. When I was working, I was positive in life. Now that no one wants me, idgaf. I have supplies that I saved money for a while to jut disappear into the woods for good. I've been waiting too damn long for my life to turn around for the good. And like I said earlier, I AM trying to help myself, but it's worse than going up the steepest, iciest, challenging wall. NO ONE IS HELPING ME. NO FAMILY. NO FRIENDS. NO ONE. I'm basically going hungry on the streets with only someone giving me a temporary roof over my head. I have to leave at the beginning of July.
I have been. I've been fighting to try and get ANY job. now they want you to be over qualified for the simplest jobs. Back when I was in school, all you needed to be a cashier at Target was a high school diploma...I've applied there many times...and nothing. I've applied to businesses that I have experience...and nothing...for almost 10 years I've been jobless, homeless, and SOL. It is hard to find money for food let alone happiness when nobody wants to help. I've gone to shelters in the past and they turned me away because people my age aren't homeless and jobless. She thought I was trying to steal from them. I want to go back to school, but I don't even have enough money for an application fee. I want to better my life, but society is making it pretty fucking hard to tread water. And once people hear I have depression and where I currently am staying, they treat me like shit. I am trying to fight the stigma of mental illness, but I am getting no help from anyone anywhere except the measly social security checks each month that don't really help.
Fine. Keep petting our heads and saying "you'll get better soon. You'll get a job soon. It'll be better soon. Drink more water and eat healthy" if it'll make YOU feel better. But not actually helping hurts. Saying you understand someone's pain when you've never experienced it yourself hurts. Saying you'll be there no matter what and you aren't hurts. We need people to stfu and actually take the time to listen and not post all these self help crap posts online. We know what to do. We deal with it on a daily basis. Just because some famous celebrity died from suicide doesn't mean the topic is popular. IT IS ALWAYS HERE. Keep talking about it, no matter if some famous guy dies or if it was your friend. Putting it in the back of your mind 3 months after it's out of the news doesn't help. Be aware.
You also need to realize that sometimes people need to be left alone when they're depressed and suicidal. Some are just thinkers, not actually going to do anything. The thought does count that you offer to be there, but sometime all that head petting and shoving articles at us to read and tips that CNN or whatever says is ideal, isn't always, You never know how someone else feels until you've been in their shoes and walked down the same path. It's better to ask HOW can I help and wait and listen to what they say then presume you know what's right and annoy them by making them think you are a know it all and don't value them to listen to what they want to tell you...
@hazard by looks you look like the everyday pretty boy....but I guess people in sports want the sterilized version of reality. not all are pretty...you ARE kinda cute, but as a soccer player? I'd have to see you in action with your shirt off...
Sometimes you are FORCED into it. I was blackmailed and threatened by a boss/former friend/authority figure who was married into a relationship I didn't want but I kind of had to deal with it because I was homeless and they were my housing for the time. It is both a choice because you CAN and SHOULD have the ability to say no, but also a mistake because of the aftermath it could possibly cause...
@rendezvous
Exactly. I was just about to say that.
If you were a kick ass outstanding soccer player and proved to be and not just a pretty boy, then yes. Since I don't know you in rl...sorry but no. If I was mass media any girl who'd go for anything with a dick, then prob yes.
@ᑕᖇiᗰᔕ-ᑎ
here's something easier for me:
Accept an apology from my best guy friend David's murderer (yes I did have a friend killed a few years back)….or forgive my mother for ruining my life
No contest. I'd hug the murderer.
And many people say what they think other's would like, or that is P/C...I admit I wanted to kill many people who hurt me, or other things like that. I'd take the blame, especially if I was the POS I am right now in today's society. Then maybe I'd get killed in jail and be finally dead.
Ask a question and answer honestly...what are your likes, your fears, your most embarrassing moments ever, etc...have fun and be nice
@kev123 it should have been THESE stories then...
@justelle10 damn you're young. you weren't born when I graduated h.s.
@kev123 this STORY. not stories...