Posts made by Chu

Hi there. I can feel your pain. I also just broke up with him. And we still love each other. I think that loving each other just makes the pain worse. I dont have much good advise for you because I too am still in pain and trying to recover. Perhaps just knowing that u are not the only one, and that u are not alone, can be some form of comfort

I am currently at a very low point in my life.
I had a partner that I was in love with. We both love to travel, and I wanted to travel with him. We were together for almost 1 year.
However my parents had very strong beliefs, and said that no travelling together is allow before marriage. I disagreed with this belief. I decided to lie to them and also made my partner lie to them, that we would not go travelling. But we did go, and lied about it.
I think I was not a good liar, and they sent a private investigator to follow me. We were caught.
They say they can never accept him ever again.
And as a result, I had to break up with him to keep my family together.
It was a choice between my relationship breaking or my family breaking.
I chose my family. But I feel that I am scarred for life. No only did I lose my (first) love, but I feel like I lost alot of my love and trust between myself and my family. And that makes me sad.

hello. how are u