Posts made by canc_er

Wish you a Happy Birthday! 🍀🎉 May your dreams come true and I hope there'll be more happy & joyful days ahead of you. 🍾🎂

I've been curious - is being and introvert & extrovert really something that's been decided since you were born, or is it something that forms as you grow up? 💁🏼‍♀️

I've seen many people that grew up in similar environments, but have completely opposite personalities. And there are people who have switched between being and introvert and extrovert. Some say they can't change their personalities, but some can completely turn that around.

How is it for you?🤔

Online dating itself is not worth it. Can say that for sure. You may start interacting or chatting with someone online and meet them (preferably in daylight on somewhere where people are constantly around - to avoid risks) so you can get to know them in real life. And preferably start chatting with seeing their real profiles - like on Facebook or Instagram platforms where you can see their real profile. It's all about how good is your judgment and how careful you are with people online as well. There are more risks than anything else. 🤷🏼‍♀️ And people need real life interactions with those who they date. That's just how humans are made to be. They have their emotional and physical needs that can't be satisfied while online dating. ( Holding hands or receiving a hug, spending time together and collecting moments & memories with each other for example. )

I read somewhere before that brain edits memories, changing and updating the past with new information. I think that emotions you experience throughout time when you remember particular memories - change. You may feel sad at the beginning, but then think "It was a useful lesson" or "I was happy at that time". Or maybe there are happy memories that later make you feel sad or hurt. And after years you won't remember as much details about these memories, that's because you've made new ones.

Time tends to erase many things. You meet new people and make new memories with them.

Memories are like drawings - as time goes by you may edit them by ereasing some parts or make them fade away by drawing over the old memories with new/better ones. It's best to not sink in memories, but get something useful out of them.

If you walk down the street with people passing by and then suddenly realize that you are going to the opposite direction - do you turn around or keep walking the same direction?

Everybody deserves it though.

@Ihateuall Can't say it wasn't. 🤣

@Chimera 👏🏻 Nice one!

@Peek_A_Boom I advise you to look up causes for people to get cancer cuz' it seems you are clueless about such a simple thing. I would have appreciated it if you had commented that my posts make people go blind or something. 🤣

Sometimes 'forever' is real. It depends on how lucky you are. You may meet your 'forever' in first 10 people you meet in this life. And you may meet them only by going through hundreds of relationships. You just can't predict how it will turn out.

Look through past and see how your like has changed after meeting them. And what did the relationship lead to. Is it better or is it getting worse? Try to imagine how your future will look like with them. Like, lets say.. in next 3 years. Just remember that you have to feel more happy than unhappy, because there will never be a person who won't annoy you or with whom you won't argue. But regretting choices you've made is different. To be happy and bring happiness to other party, you have to feel glad that she is a part of your life and you can be a part of hers, not just glad that you love her. Walking the same path together and building a future together, that's what you have to be happy about. And in all of that you must feel loved and give your love to her, forgetting annoying things and small arguments you may have.

Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.