@TheGoldenMole I think that being cautious about someone and not trusting them immediately, is okay. I have trust issues too, but I think that if this person is important to you then try to open up to them and going a little more out of your comfort zone and tell them a little about some of the things that happened to you. It doesn’t need to be all the bad things it can be good thins too! Tell them small things and test them a little. Don’t do it immediately though, be sure you know this person well and know if they’re the type to talk about other people’s secrets or not. It can be hard to tell people what happened to you. If you overcame something and you tell them about the bad part then be sure to tell them that you did overcome it. Just be cautious with who you share your past or what happens in your life.
Having trust issues has a good and bad side. The good side is that you won’t get hurt that easily. The bad side is that you might hurt other people’s feelings. So just think about that.
Just be cautious and try opening up to the person you know is there for you always in good and bad times. When you can rely on someone then you know you can most likely trust them.
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RE: T-R-U-S-T I-S-S-U-E-S
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RE: How do you (if you do) deal with anxiety?
I normally stop thinking about the current situation, take a breather and calm myself down by drinking water and thinking about what makes me happy, then I know I;m calm and can go on with what was happening. If you don't calm down then you risk making the situation worse and harder to solve the problem or maybe even make it unsolveable. That's just my oppinion and to be honnest this helps a lot.
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RE: Is this a problem or am I just a sensitive baby?
@TheGoldenMole I think that guys make those jokes about women who open theirselves up to it. If a woman shows too much skin or something like that and kind of is lust full then men can’t always help themselves to think those thoughts. It goes two ways I guess. Yes it is disgusting and disrespectful towards women to repeatedly make indecent jokes or comments about them or anything but it’s also very disrespectful towards men if a woman misleads them. I’m not on either side here, it’s a reaction for a reaction and it goes on to infinity.
One or two jokes is okay but when it becomes a habit it becomes a problem. -
Low-carb Lifestyle
Re: Is there any way to recover eyesight if it has gone weak?
Eating low-carb lifestyle works! My parents both wear glasses and we all decided to start doing this low carb thing and after a few months my parents didn't even need their glasses anymore... they actually started seeing better without them.
(If you don't want to change your whole eating ways, I would reccomend using coconut oil instead of butter, milk or cream. You can also eat a spoonful of it as a snack)This doesn't only work for eye-sight it can work to lose weight and also reduce sweating/ getting tired easily. After about three months we started getting all figety and decided to exercise, that made us lose weight even faster. My dad literally ran up 10 flights of stairs at his job because he couldn't walk any slower because he was so full of energy.
When you sleep it's like you feel like you didn't sleep but you aren't tired at all.
The oil in your body mostly goes away.
If you have a bad case of pimples then look no further... I used to have really bad acne and by eating this way my skin is so smooth. Like a fashion model you can say.
When you eat, it's like you are filled lightly and it doesn't feel like a rock inside of your stomach. I normally skip lunch and eat only breakfast and dinner because I keep forgetting to eat because I'm never hungry! I just eat because I know I have to.The food we eat is so delicious and experimenting. We even have chocolate that tastes just like actual chocolate! Remember that this isn't a diet, this is a lifestyle... you always eat like this. Yes you can have your treat days or cheat days or whatever you'd like to call them, but the main point is to get healthy and this really works, better than any diet out there!!
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RE: How do you (if you do) deal with anxiety?
@harveylake Just clear your head and think of possible options how you can resolve the problem.
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RE: Low-carb Lifestyle
@Wolfie_11 Thank you! Yes not everyone can do it but I think it can be done in a different way too maybe. Maybe they are starting to figure out different things for them to eat as we use a lot of nuts and seeds and some people are allergic to it. You can do low carb just check if there is nuts or those stuff in it. We could always start to request things so that people with alergies can do this lifestyle without having to face the consequences of eating the wrong thing. Thank you for your reply.
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RE: Low-carb Lifestyle
@Lord-Rorschach you can eat lots of fats. Like nuts, cream, olive oil... all those things. The best way to start is by starting to stop eating sugar. We have a sweetner we use that you have to fet used to but after a while you will feel so healthy and it’ll start tasting like sugar to you. Because my family and I are losing weight we eat 20 carbs or under each day which helps us to go into ketosis which helps with losing weight and is very healthy. But if you don’t want to lose anymore weight you can push your carbs up to 60 per day which will give you a variety of foods you can eat. The thing is, you don’t have to eat all the fancy stuff we eat but the fancy stuff keeps you full. If you want to eat normal food then be prepared to eat only a little to stay inside of your carbs.
I suggest that you download the “Foodle Free” app that shows you the carbs and stuff of food items. It works. Also the coconut oil works if you want to use it to cook food or something in it rather than using sunflower oil or those disgusting things that make you nauseous afterwards. Also, go listen to Tim Nokes and read about things and stuff about this lifestlye. There is also a different lifestyle similar to this one called Banting but I wouldn’t suggest that to someone with health issues. We tried that too, it worked but my dad got kidney stones because of it and that’s not good.
Fun fact: Did you know that one whole pizza is 200 carbs? And that one potato is in equal of 40 carbs?
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RE: Low-carb Lifestyle
@Wolfie_11 Haha I just realized that haha, I will change it. Thank you. And yes... a lot of people don’t actually want to lose weight because that’s not the point, the point is to be healthy. So they can eat like this to be healthy. I think that anything can be done if you put your mind to it :)
P.S. I just like calling myself a waffle haha.
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RE: Low-carb Lifestyle
@Wolfie_11 Yes. We eat a lot of tasty food though ;)
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RE: Is this a problem or am I just a sensitive baby?
@TheGoldenMole I perfectly understand what you mean. We all have our own opinions. To be honest there are lots of sides behind this subject. Yes men can control their thoughts and they do sometimes act on it. Not all men are like that though so we can’t blame everyone. A lot of guys are bad but a lot of guys are good too. It depends on how you want to see them.
If a guy does that with a woman who just asks a simple question then they are probably bad. We can’t really judge anyone in this matter because there is a reason why this guy is like this. It all goes back to the family line.By misleading I mean like when a woman for example goes clubbing and they decide to show a bit too much. Obviously a guy will get the wrong idea. I think you can also dress how you want and no one should think those thoughts and stuff. A guy could think those thoughtha even if a woman isn’t wearing very open clothes. We can talk about this the whole time.
Just remember I’m not for it or against it, I just lift my opinion and I respect your opinion. -
RE: Low-carb Lifestyle
@Lord-Rorschach Not at all!! Fats actually burn fat, that’s the best thing. People eat so many carbs and have to snack the whole time because of carbs because the energy in carbs lasts for an hour or so that’s why you feel the need to eat the whole time. People think sugar intake helps with energy... it does but you just feel bad afterwards by getting a headache or something. Fats give you a lot more energy to hold in and it doesn’t make you feel as bad. It also saves you time from eating so much because if your energy level always is low because of the amount of carb intake you do then you waste time by feeling weak and also having to eat again every once in a while. When you eat fats, you eat when you need to eat... sometimes if you are very active then you might need snacks because you burn energy faster. If you use carbs then your energy will stay for about 20 mins depending on how much you took in. You can always keep nuts with you to eat a few and then you’re good to go rather than an energy bar. I also suggest this lifestyle to someone who is very active because it makes you very energetic and want to live. It’ll also prevent your chances from getting a heart attack!
I forgot one more thing about this life style. It also improves your ability to learn things and listen to someone! My grades improved so much because of this lifestyle. It’s not just for school it’s also for learning in life.