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Its what I have been saying Ash, it is one source, but it may be possible that also matter that isn't alive by it self, came from same place as life.
Basically it would mean that matter isn't necessity to life it self but simply a way to be observable as dimensional plane , something that life defines it self accordingly with.

Other possible outcome would be that first came matter, then as a willing partaking in continuity of "time" life started consuming resources as a way to turn it into a more profound expression . since complexity is something that continuously grows .

Its really hard to say what is life, from a perspective where we are aware just so much to what we thrives along side of, for example sun, and not aware how much other stars effect life's existence and moment where expression of one self takes place.
.Day and Night cycle? Or would you find it more correct that there is much more that dictates when something is in wakeful state or state of rest.

I will probably read up on the post you made, but just from what Lin said I am assuming that I'm not too much off topic
Don't jump to the conclusions when it comes to how complex things came to be.

So my little brainiac , be firm in the decision to have more alongside yourself, to have more things that describe your personhood , and grow to reach that point , grow and nurture from what makes you feel most alive right now, our home planet, then trough continuity you should be able to perceive more of those pillars that life builds it self upon.

P,S,.
I'd love to have any one self read this, and then correct some of the statements, like for example , word work, don't work on yourself, grow alongside , from personal place of being.

@thom-yolk you r welcome

@Peek_A_Boo can't argue that. I'm privileged to enjoy night sleeps 💤

@hafan hey, I am here. I want to be you friend and I want to talk with you. If you accept my request. I am waiting for you..

@rehka maybe I perceived differently. So I'm not sure what you wanted say.
But the essay is about doing the thing which u keep postponeding to do. Th essay is for procrastinators.

@rehka haha thanks

@davitchen my page count has decrease now. it 5-6 now. but I don't regrate it. coz the book I am reading I very interesting. I take time to read and analyze / imagine what I have read. it's a fun activity if you choose a category you like.

@BlossomingLove that's y it is important to set some rules. Also it's important to know your boundaries. How would I know if it is "safe" for you.
The problem is what is ur normals. What ur mind has unconsciously set normals. Once u able to change that then might have control over ur desires.

What you have concerned about is ur desires have control over you. That's the most toxic relationship. Every human should try to take control over it. That's real freedom.

I can't answer your question, since I don't know you irl and one should be responsible for their actions. But I can told you why it is important.

It doesn't mean I'm 100% free from my desires. I don't want to. But I'm on a journey to have control over it. So I can be better. This topic is just an attempt to share my journey with people and to put my thoughts into words.

@BlossomingLove

I found the video!!

@AshK oops alr

helloooooooo?

@Ash33 you probably know a thing or two about it :smirk:

its all just a big wheel

@NothingnessR05 yeah it is active for till June ig. U can vote there daily

is it a satanic fiesta of sugar and obese children, like in the white anglo saxon protestant world ?

@Ash33 said in How to do NNN to get most from it.:

So u have decided to do nnn ? For whatever reason. But not sure if you would succeed in it? Then this is topic for you. (Also for people who r bored and want to read something)
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NNN is overrated because it recommends prohibition from all kinds of ejaculations, not just fapping. ( I am one among those people who are bored and want to read + say something). I won't say whether I decide/(d) to follow it or not.

"No Nut November is an internet challenge revolving around abstinence, in which participants abstain from masturbation, sex and ejaculation,"

Source- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_Nut_November

Though wetdreams are too underrated. It is impossible for the most humans to stop nocturnal emissions in their young age.
83% american males have experienced nightfalls
97% Indonesian males have experienced the same. This percentage is vary country-by-country.

For those unmarried young males who have experienced nightfalls, the recurring rate of nightfall is 1 per 20 days.
For those married young males who have experienced nightfalls, the recurring rate of nightfall is 1 per 30.42 days.

Since November has 31 days, I don't think the most young men really follow it. However, 40+ old men whether married or unmarried can follow it because their nightfall recurring rate is 1 per 2 months.

Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_emission

If u think by doing only thus u could regulate ur fap addiction. But what about after November? U should change your mindset and look at it as an opportunity.
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We will not talking about fapping is good or bad in this topic.

Okay

We will go at root cause of having urge to do that.

They do fap when they are alone. So being alone can be a reason. I do not know for sure.

Fapping feeling rewarding. It release stress hormones.

It does not release stress hormones. It releases some hormones that relieve you from stress.

Everyone knows it.

But the people who were following nnn regime did not know or pretend to not know it.
They gave these reasons for abstaining masturbation -

Perceiving masturbation unhealthy. Aversion to atheism. Sticking to christian doctrine. Masturbation has bad effect on social life. Too much religiosity. Lower trust in science.

Sources - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7145784/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8382266/

But is it only thing that could help us to release stress hormones and feel happy?.

Six other reasons are also responsible-

Fapping gives sexual pleasure It cures insomnia for very short-term Some people realise that mutual masturbation is better than doing it alone It increases ejaculation time if it is done before sex It lowers your blood pressure Some people realise it is better to fap alone than getting a partner and have sex with him

No there are a lot of things that make us truly happy.

True

Fapping is easy reward system. That's y mostly people be lazy and procrastinate.
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Idk wdym by the easy reward system.

But problem is for that we need to do work.
So use nnn to break the chain. Make yourself obligate for no fapping but not by force. Just simply shift your force on different things. Explore what stuffs u enjoy doing. Build a hobby. Do some projects.

it does not matter because we are already going to ejaculate.
it matters for some because they don't get nightfalls.

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should I censore vulgar words? 🤔

no

Btw 85% young females also got sleep orgasm xD.

Nice idea 😂