Posts made by Allison

@test_account I should perhaps read into this before delving further in a 100 page forum post of questions(as i was raised away from religion). It's taken my interest recently.

It seems like a healthy roadmap of prioritization etc.

@test_account

Life-giving is important then & supercedes preference(should determine it) & converts lust into passion(if principled).

@test_account It's still interesting that love is brought about in Christianity(when traditionally rejecting homosexuality) through bodily lust(which is also rejected?)?

@test_account So the love itself is asexual not bi/pan(if we want to use the terminology lol)

@Matt_Aranha agreed

@Matt_Aranha said in Whats your favorite dessert?:

Panna cotta

Why did I read that as pina colada

@Ziah_99 People break & if they want you they're gonna have to pick their better half. Babysitting doesn't work.

@Ziah_99 I just dislike people who are two faced & ride on emotional fluctuations rather than commitments. I'm not going to stick around. & i especially hate it if they apologize without any indication they'll change(and they don't).

Just don't downplay her making you feel worthless.

@Ziah_99 I'll assume they're emo & would replace me by finding the same "worth" in a stranger

@Ziah_99 No ? I'm not sure how people can do that to me anyways. I fight back usually & it ends naturally.

@tombandy You have messaging set for people you follow only

Pickle pop wiggle wop

I saw this 10 days ago. Assume that 500 people also did & they were speechless. Lmao

@Heccikage Your bio + your outlook says it all. You want women until you know them & then you care so much that when you build up to the ceiling of your insecurities, you drop em off with a big fat lie & let em cry & leave.

@Heccikage

Okay so it's all because of your fear & pressure that you feel compelled to lie & you use an altruistic stance to make yourself feel better about it.

My only advice here is to settle on what the relationship is. You can have relationships at low levels without lies.

@Heccikage

Your opinion is that the end justifies the means & you don't actually kill anything except your good side which actually cares & in the process you tear out her heart because she saw that in you.

You're not doing anything for her "goodness". A part of her goodness is her not telling you to fuck off just because you're down or having negative vibes. A part of goodness is seeing goodness in everyone. You're just giving up on yourself & her & you're assuming a positive change would come from a negative one on the basis of you feeling that she deserves better.

If you killed yourself for someone's goodness, it would be an ego death. You'd give her better rather than taking love away.
Love isn't a mistake, only the lack thereof. & she thinks it's worth it despite things & apparently you can't handle that.

She made her choice on you & you want desperately to prove her wrong because you don't believe in yourself & you're passing off your disbelief as part of that self you don't believe in the strength of(your love).

I would jump in

@Ash005 I looked at it more as a hypothetical due to the rationalization aspect HaStronaut posed. It is fantasy though in that the elements involved are far out