Best posts made by _divv_roxx_

@arusha Woaah !! It's quite amazing since it has the emotions and the feelings you so deeply have.. I'm sure she/you is/are so privileged to have each others.. In today's era of brutality, things like this seem no less than a miracle.. Splendid Ms !!

@WtfJudith I did move out to pursue my graduation at the age of 18.. Its quite common for the ones who seek to pursue further education from a different place than there native

@Arusha Bunnies, because they are just too cute the way they are :)

@pe7erpark3r Great that you have found one amidst the many.. I just lost the only one after a togetherness of nearly over a decade. So, my perception has completely changed in regards to this..

@The-Mods I totally agree with you.. Most of us might be having the same perception, especially the ones who have been through the disastrous phase :/

@sania-sus This happens to be the wholesome truth my dear.. We can only be the mute audience amidst the brute show life has offered, for the decisions/choice we made..

@Livetodie @kristina-willis Having some-one around yourself, worthy enough, to hold your back, makes it a lot easier to overcome situations like these.. A close friend of mine reminded me again today, "time heals it all. You will get used to the feeling and start seeing what went wrong. You are never going to forget what happened but this is also going to make you a better person. The stronger the cause, the longer it's going to take so as to heal. So, don't lose hope already. Concentrate on the things you are good at. I am sure it's going to help, slowly but surely."

@Janet "Fogive to Forget".. No matter how simpler this might sound, but the execution to it is quite harder..

@erikagautney A big heartfelt "Thanks" :clap: to you guys, for investing your energy and time so as to come up with an extremely elaborative response to each and every bit in there :) A lot much still remains, untold/inexpressible :disappointed: :loudly_crying_face: Yeah, the chess analogy would be very appropriate and right to understand and counter fight the situations whatsoever comes upfront.. At the same time, you hardly can make a move, when you're not in good shape.. When the decisions have been way too agonizing, Would you wonder, on the reason why is it so hard to further decide upon ? About "THE ENTIRE WORLD", You have your own tiny little world, built around, with the ones you rely upon, with the things you love to do and so on.. Any disturbance/irregularities into the same, no matter what it is, how is it related to, but surely/definitely it affects you.. Yep, It is my turn to move, and since most(all) of my moves had been worse, I feel !!" There is no "pass" or "skip a move".. But what do I make a choice about ?? Do I have those options to chose from ? Might be/not.. The mere essence of harshness which has dissolved itself to such an extent, which now seems to be inseparable.. Some lessons lead to unidirectional way where isn't a coming back :(

@Ashish_ Lethargic

@Amel Woaahh.. That sounds adorable.. The spark that you guys hold within yourself, trying not to ruin the bond you have by admitting how you guys feels about one another wouldn't be the best thing to do. Maybe today you both are fine with it, but after a due course of time, you might look back and repent about the choices you made and the choices you left behind due to the fear you had.. But honestly, I would suggest to go for it, Its gonna be a soothing and a memorable journey ahead.. Maybe this is what you were up to.. May be all you needed was a push to admit and accept it. Wish you all the very best :)

@Janet "Criminal" - Britney Spears :smiling_face_with_heart-eyes: :love-you_gesture_light_skin_tone:

@pe7erpark3r I would say it's a myth to rely upon. It definitely could be true for a few while for a greater ratio it happens to be the other way around. No hard feelings, happy for those who have the truthfulness amidst themselves still alive..

@Amel Ahhh.. To be brutally honest, you remind me of the similar stance I have been in for the last 6+ months, just looking towards the closer, of the various Why's ? How's ? etc.. But eventually, we return back with bare empty hands, silence, solitude.. Its possible, we were under the impression of having them as the best/close/dear ones to us, but on the contrary, they had their own perceptions regarding us and never felt alike.. Also, the energy, zeal and strength with which we were invested into them, could also have been entirely different.. "The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.. " Its hard, I agree.. But its how it is.. Maybe there are better plans up ahead.. Maybe we could have avoided the worst through this shattering a while ago.. All I can do is to request you to stay strong during this vulnerable phase and rest you will steer through it for sure. In case you wish to talk more about, drop me a text.. I'll try to be of help, if any required.. GBU

When you experience loss, be it personal, professional, financial, mental or whatsoever, people just say you’ll move through the 5 stages of grief..
Denial . .
Anger . .
Bargaining . .
Depression . .
Acceptance . .

Is it all ? Really ? I believe "NOT"

What they don’t tell you is, "You’ll cycle through them all of these every fcuk**g day and its not gonna help..

#Reality_Check #Got_Any_Say !!

@The-Mods #Appreciable :)

You see a boat filled with people. It has not sunk, but when you look again you don't see a single person on the boat ? Why ?

Well, everyone has a friend who holds a very special place in his life. Talking about men…a friend whom you love unconditionally and selflessly.....a friend who knows every secret of your life and who is always the first person whom you want to call when you are in some mess…a friend who tells you exactly what you want to hear. He was such a friend to me. My best friend – if that defines the zenith of good friendship. I would rather say, there is no definition of friendship that we shared with each other, the more I explain it, the more complicated it becomes to recite the aspects of our relationship.

He was that closer a friend to me, who knew all the nitty-gritties of my life…from every one who ever came into my life, to passwords of my email accounts or public profiles. Absolutely everything! He was the only person on earth I trusted blindly and cared for, truly and unconditionally. He was the only one till I lost him amidst the chaos. WHY ? What ? How ? Damn many questions to be answered, yet unanswered, leaving behind a great vacuum which wouldn't fade so easily.. #Friendship_Hurts_As_Well :(

@Aamna-Malik I staunchly agree with you :) Sooner or later, every last echo fades. Even the loudest thunder in the deepest valley. We have nothing that is really our own; we hold everything as a loan..

@janet Happy Friendship Day :)