My brothers husband hurt me really bad when I was a teenager. His newest husband did the same thing. I wish I could’ve pressed charges but they both passed away. So now I’m here holding onto this shame forever

If you need to talk. I know what you talking about and it is so hard to create healthy boundaries with you family or in your home

@Pink-Angel it’s hard sometimes to get through all the things life throws at us. Be patient with yourself and take things one problem at a time. Give yourself time to feel what you’re feeling. You can’t change the way you feel. You just have to make your own path to a new kind of happiness

I hope the best for you.

You’re far away. But I can be a good friend if you need one. I have a lot of life experience so you can talk to me about anything you need

Lol. I don’t understand why people say they want to talk and then when you reply they ignore you. I don’t get this world

@FluffyyKupKakes loved what you said. Some people just don’t get how much their ignorance can damage others. Well put.

Yeah what do you expect. There are not a lot of places to meet people when you’re middle aged. All the support groups are cut off at age 25. So please tell me where men should go to find someone. Especially if they’re like me and want a man. Don’t judge others based on age. That was the type of crap I did when I was a kid and guess what I regret it everyday. Ageism is what is hurting so many elderly people why not say just let them all die after age 45. Seriously don’t spread your hate. One day you could have kids and they might want to be with the same sex. Trust me no matter how religious and outspoken you are against it. Your hate will never change someone’s love for another.

Really where are you from? I’m in Utah,USA.
I’m searching for a good friend and hopefully more.

@Woman143
Sorry that happened to you. Scammers and manipulators are the worst. I am easy to trust also. There are people that just spend their days trying to get money out of those that have a good heart. It happens to more people than is reported. When I was in a similar situation and they tried to extort money from me. I told them he’ll no. So they sent nudes to all my relatives. So my whole family saw the most private part of me. Don’t trust anyone if there are any red flags. Especially online. I’ve been proposed to by a scammer. They really do their homework also. Be careful. And to get even just tell everyone he knows how he has to mooch money off of you. Trust me nothing hurts a man’s ego like not being able to care for themselves and their loved ones.
Good luck.

Male
Or female?