Soo, i need an advice.
I smell.
Pretty sure you made a face of disgust hahaha
But my situation is that… i don’t really smell. I shower everyday, i put a deodorant on my armpit, and i always make sure that i don’t smell.
But when i’m at home, i usually don’t use deo ‘coz i’m at home and i am comfortable as I am alone.
So sometimes, yes, i do smell.
And i know it’s disgusting but that’s when i am only alone at home.
In addition, if i don’t use deo, i use this soothing lotion niacinamide which also makes me NOT SMELL (sorry for my english as i am not fluent tho i am living in an english language country due to work). So yeah, if i don’t use deo, i use the lotion on my armpit.
I make sure that i don’t smell at all, although i do smell sweaty but not to the point that i smell funky like that sour smell.
Now, i stayed with my partner’s house for a week, which he is with his family as we are planning for our wedding and I live far away from the city. I use deo when we go out and i use lotion when we don’t, which is when we are staying at home (their house). When I am on my fifth day stating at their house, one night my partner told me I need to shower, while im hugging him, ‘coz he said i already smell. And he still loves me of course i know that, but he also knows that i don’t use deo when i’m at home so it’s just natural to smell when i don’t shower for the whole day.
It kinda triggers me, I mean it’s fucking embarassing. I’m overthinking now. I’m thinking what if his family also smelled me funky and just not saying anything??? What if he’s been staying quiet for too long but i smelled for the entire time i stayed on their house?
I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking not to stay again on their house and tht i felt like not facing his family anymore and that i kinda feel embarassed to him. I’m feeling aloof all of a sudden ‘coz it’s fucking embarassing

Soo, i need an advice.
I smell.
Pretty sure you made a face of disgust hahaha
But my situation is that… i don’t really smell. I shower everyday, i put a deodorant on my armpit, and i always make sure that i don’t smell.
But when i’m at home, i usually don’t use deo ‘coz i’m at home and i am comfortable as I am alone.
So sometimes, yes, i do smell.
And i know it’s disgusting but that’s when i am only alone at home.
In addition, if i don’t use deo, i use this soothing lotion niacinamide which also makes me NOT SMELL (sorry for my english as i am not fluent tho i am living in an english language country due to work). So yeah, if i don’t use deo, i use the lotion on my armpit.
I make sure that i don’t smell at all, although i do smell sweaty but not to the point that i smell funky like that sour smell.
Now, i stayed with my partner’s house for a week, which he is with his family as we are planning for our wedding and I live far away from the city. I use deo when we go out and i use lotion when we don’t, which is when we are staying at home (their house). When I am on my fifth day stating at their house, one night my partner told me I need to shower, while im hugging him, ‘coz he said i already smell. And he still loves me of course i know that, but he also knows that i don’t use deo when i’m at home so it’s just natural to smell when i don’t shower for the whole day.
It kinda triggers me, I mean it’s fucking embarassing. I’m overthinking now. I’m thinking what if his family also smelled me funky and just not saying anything??? What if he’s been staying quiet for too long but i smelled for the entire time i stayed on their house?
I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking not to stay again on their house and tht i felt like not facing his family anymore and that i kinda feel embarassed to him. I’m feeling aloof all of a sudden ‘coz it’s fucking embarassing