• Are they my friends or not?

    Throughout my life, I have always thought of these guys as my friends but I realised that whenever we chatted online, it was always me chatting first and they rarely ask me about me after I check up on them.... But when I spike a conversation about my hardships, they reassure me they are here for me and that I am the bestest friend they have... But it doesnt feels like they are mine... Am I being paranoid or are they really plastic?

    Here are examples of the guys' habits towards chatting with me:
    #1 guy : replies to me late and always says he didn't see this chat (i awlays be considerate and tell myself he has a busy life)
    #2 guy: only chats me up about his brand
    #3 guy: only chats to me about his career


  • @tm its been more than a week now... is that not normal?


  • @tm Im just scared that they will lose a friend like me 😞


  • Put them into test .. go away for like 1 week and see if 1 of them asks abt u .


  • @gloriavice It's surely not normal ! I think u should take a step back .. if i were u i would just leave tbh


  • @gloriavice dont be scared of something like that ... u can be my friend dm me if u want 😉

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    @gloriavice said in Are they my fake friends?:

    Are they my friends or not?

    Throughout my life, I have always thought of these guys as my friends but I realised that whenever we chatted online, it was always me chatting first and they rarely ask me about me after I check up on them.... But when I spike a conversation about my hardships, they reassure me they are here for me and that I am the bestest friend they have... But it doesnt feels like they are mine... Am I being paranoid or are they really plastic?

    Here are examples of the guys' habits towards chatting with me:
    #1 guy : replies to me late and always says he didn't see this chat (i awlays be considerate and tell myself he has a busy life)
    #2 guy: only chats me up about his brand
    #3 guy: only chats to me about his career

    If they are your irl friends why do u care about this. I don't talk to my best friend for weeks yet we are besties irl.


  • You confused and boggled you consider you are being paranoid ?? I can say you are misinterpreting to yourself about friend, alo so naive to belive in you thought without understanding the deeper meaning of friend

    Ask yourself what friend means for you??
    A fellow will be there with you in your good and bad times without being judgemental about your actions, and consider you, take you as you are ..always try to help without being selfish, will not hesitate to confronts your stupid and wrong doings..
    So now question is do you have any one around you with this quality?? Yeah it's friend for ever i guess ??






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