@Cookie-KASPER said in Why is there so much hate on this site?:
Well PLEASE GUYS AS A GOOD FRIEND I'M TELLING U THIS PLEASE LET'S STOP THIS HATE AND ONLY SPREAD LOVE 😉😎
yikes
It's been 2 months since we spoke. I wanna win her back. Any ideas ? I've been blocked everywhere. What do I do?
What did you do?
We did many things to each other but we held on and never gave up but all of a sudden she spoke about the mistakes I did like a year ago and left .
Well, like what mistakes, did you do?
@Goosiah I couldn't take her abuse , blackmail and lies
Anymore and I slapped her. I deleted her phone storage remotely by mistake. She thinks I did it deliberately but again this was like a year ago. She thinks I forced her to buy a dress buy I really liked the way she looked in it. She was the one who picked the dress. I never choose her dress. I just told her if you dont like anything we ll go back and buy that dress. I feel like I'm a bad person.
Wait, but then, why do you wanna win her back, if she's hurting you? Is this a case of Stockholm Syndrome?
@Goosiah lol I don't know about that. She loved me like no one else could. We were really happy when we were normal but when we had fights we were like tornado and volcano coming together. We could never leave no matter how much we hurt each other. I just don't know what to do now. Feel like I'm having ptsd now
Wait, so you're just having normal couple fights, you kinda over exaggerated what you had, but yeah, to win her back, it mostly depends on you, and if she has moved on or not
@Goosiah I'm not talking about normal fights. What do i do?
Well you can't do much, cuz if you do too much, it'll be creepy and weird
@Goosiah I'm planning on sending her a letter 😅
maybe she just wants your attention
@Albetø-ツ if wants it. She would unblock me. Right?
@Marc-Walton she testing you to see what you would do since she blocked but if not she probably just moved on and your wasting your time and thats probably the case
she could come back to her senses tho and realize that you really love her... but if i were you i would just stop chasing after someone that doesn’t care about you and if she did care about you or really loved you she would care about your feelings instead of assuming things
@Albetø-ツ yes you're right. It's so hard for me. I dont know how to deal with it. Feel like I'm getting PTSD. I talk to myself assuming she's next to me.
@Marc-Walton calm down and move on... and try not to do anything crazy..... meet new people maybe she just wasn’t the one for you !
@Marc-Walton Why you would want to date someone who doesn't want you back. Would the relationship really be same knowing that she's once given up on it? I'm sorry. I know you wanted advice on how to get her back, but I feel like the best course of option for you is to just move on as well. Love is mutual, obsession is not.
No you cant win her back, face the reality and go simp neighbor of yours.
@Marc-Walton no u can't win her back , she is not an object