Love at first sight is total bullshit, change my mind๐
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Please post only if you have a reason to disagree. No reason required to say that you agree ๐
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@Nobody46 passing by here to agree. infatuation? yes! instrant attraction? yes! love??? not really. but i'm not saying that the feeling of being infatuated with someone can not turn into something deeper like:
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@writtenbyviolet Exactly! That is what majority of people need to understand these days. The temporary spark you feel might be due to one of the others physical attributes and it just fades away when you find someone better or get to know other's demerits. Love takes years to build and it is legit care for each other. Judge a person and if they are a beautiful human, you ll fall in love by yourself.. Cheers ๏ฟผ๐
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@Nobody46 Ask your mum, what did it feel like to see you for the first time when you were a newborn baby? That's LOVE at first sight. Not romantic love but it's still love. Once she has fallen for you, she's hooked for life.
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@kaia_ Well technically, even that love took 9 months to develop... So yeah, yet again we come to the conclusion that LOVE takes time ๐
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@kaia_ Your query is different. You are talking about a blood relationship and that too the most sacred of all. Every parent has uncoditional love for their child even before they have them, like even if you think about your kids to be now at the moment, you ll have a very unnatural kinda feeling. They dont love you at first sight, you ve always been a part of them which does not apply to the rest of the world ๐...and even in this case, she takes care of you more than her for more or less 9 months and go crazy when see you for real but that is not really the first meeting. Hope you grasp that ๐
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@Nobody46 Alright :grin: there's no LOVE at first sight because LOVE is blind
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@kaia_ Lmao I was gonna say something same cuz I dont see an end to the debate, but still love at first sight is bullshit ๐
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@Nobody46 said in Love at first sight is total bullshit, change my mind๐:
@writtenbyviolet Exactly! That is what majority of people need to understand these days. The temporary spark you feel might be due to one of the others physical attributes and it just fades away when you find someone better or get to know other's demerits. Love takes years to build and it is legit care for each other. Judge a person and if they are a beautiful human, you ll fall in love by yourself.. Cheers ๏ฟผ๐
Because... looove~ takes timeeee to heal when you're hurting so much, couldn't see that iiiii was bliiiind to let you goOoO ๐ถ
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Love at first sight? Maybe not, but lust at first sight is a real thing & that can eventually lead to love.
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It could be real but it would be up to your own choice and luck. Love at first sight could either be a tiny bit of love or someone could follow through and it could turn into something more if both people wanted to and were lucky.
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Has anyone felt and instant connection with someone you never met before? Itโs like you know them without really knowing them. Iโve felt it. It makes me think Iโve know. This person in my previous life.
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@Skittles1810 Who knows that might be one of the reasons I posted this topic ๐
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Love at first is not applicable to all people it exist yes but only to some you can't just say things are bullshit because it didn't happen to you. Love doesn't have definite time,place and event or anything it occur unexpected and love at first sight isn't exempted. Love at first sight has proven by many couples the only bullshit thing here is that someone who's saying things are bullshit jist because it didn't happen to him/her
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@Nobody46 Deja
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@kaia_ Not that it has happened to me ๐ but I did come across someone recently with the same disorder ๐