upset kiddo over internet nonsense
We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet It's our own thoughts, we each see things differently but at the same time we see things all the same, (depends on the subject) and I personally think your right but again, it depends on the person, because everyone has different minds, which also leads to different thoughts.
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@Rissa_TheBest I would also say that norms have changed because 100 years ago people would not question it. Consider this many your women starting at age 14 were married to much older men. Society changes as time goes on. the real question though is would it be real love?
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That again feeds right back into what we were talking about friendship. You see we all develop differently base on many factors. Region we are from, people we engage with, what we see on TV, family, religion, situations that involve us or we encounter as well as maturity level.
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@Rissa_TheBest yeah i know it's so rude
and you keep texting them first..they never be first to text..then at some point you just realize they don't care so you stop texting! -
@Nosnikda-Life-Poet depends, mainly on the people, maybe when they first start it's like a game, but when they get to know each other and make a routine to talk to each other each day... sometime i believe the person has a chance to fall in love. but still depends
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@Sarah-A-R Exactly, and at that moment you know that they really didn't care to begin with.
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Remember love takes both sides to develop. Otherwise its just a difficult situation. Communication is key. Mutual understanding is required.
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@Sarah-A-R Is it that easy to stop texting right away. Is it possible you at least want to remain friends?
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet yep that's one thing the person has to keep in mind, thanks for the very helpful advice, some has really given me something to think about so thank you
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@Rissa_TheBest you also must be cautious to consider what is truly being felt on both sides. Is it love, curiosity, infatuation, lust, interest, liking, or just companionship
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet yeah which mainly happens when a younger person is dating an older person right?
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Let me give you an example. There was a young lady who was in my opinion a good friend to me. I for so long thought that the other guy she hung around was her boyfriend. Later own she said she was irritated with me, because I was blind to see she really was into me. She told me the guy was her cousin. I totally got the signs crossed. That why its important that people communicate their intentions.
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Actually, @Rissa_TheBest it can happen in any relationship. Age is not a factor when it comes to matters of the heart and misunderstandings.
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Just imagine a guy could be shy and waves at you, To you he is just saying hi. To him he could be saying I want to get to know you..... If he never says anything how will you know....
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet I get what your saying
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These days its even more difficult, because if a person doesn't come out and say what they mean right out, because people text instead of face to face all the time, well you can get misleading information.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet I'm with you in that part, because I have my own experience of someone that wanted me , but passed many days and I thought that was just part of the conversation, I was purely blind for Many reasons, days later happened a situation and I ended asking her to date me, when I was thinking back on the days that we were only talking, I saw many signs that she really wanted and was just waiting for me get the signs
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@DennisJM that is exactly the point. We have been taught that to come right out and say something to someone is being too forward or even worse we are nervous because we have been taught to fear rejection by society. Its better to say what is on your heart and mind, get a yes or no, then move on. Even if the answer is no, you realize the person is not for you and you can move on with life.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet and these always lead to frustration, what is sad because we live in a world where everything is like water in our hands recently, even relationships, so this make us afraid to risk what we have, to give a try on love , as best example, the existence of dating apps, you don't need to search your love or feel something, just swipe right, talk for some minutes, ask to a quick date, and in the next day, just a hi hi, like nothing happened.
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What I like about @Rissa_TheBest is that you really engage a conversation and really defend your argument. I could swap thoughts with you for hours.