hey i am DInu new here
We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
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What do you mean @Rissa_TheBest . What will last forever?
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I mean I agree with everything, but if I say another thing then this conversation will never end, lol
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The question is, do you want it to end. I have not made friends in a while, but I would be open to your friendship.
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Really? :) I would to, and no i don't want the conversation to end but like all conversations, it will have to eventually.
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Well, the question is will it end or will it evolve... Many people can't evolve with a conversation because they are one dimensional.... But you are authentic and well rounded. I believe we could travel the waves of intuitive conversation on many levels.
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Well I agree, and thank you btw, So you think our conversation can carry on? Well I will be waiting to see were our conversation leads, probably extraordinary.
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So here is a start... does age have a bearing on friendship?
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet No age doesn't matter, age is just a number.. but it would be different if you were something more then a friend with that person.
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Now this is a truth in factor... and yet, that only meets the standards of society. Relationships have no boundaries. accept well if an adult dates a kid. Now that is sick. I figure though that after you are 19 and over you get to make your own choices and society has no say so. So if I were to see a 19 year old with a 50 year old. I figure that is their business.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet Yeah I understand that, but let me ask you a question that I have been wondering, what if a child and a man really fell in love, would that still be kinda sick or no?
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@Rissa_TheBest it all depends on the extent to which society has influenced your upbringing. Without succumbing to the freedom of openmindedness everything you see, everything you say, everything you will ever do are through the eyes mouths and body of whatever controls you. "with these eyes I am my father" goes the phrase I just invented (lol).
Your case of a relationship with the man and child isnt wrong IMO. however you would question it since the norm has taught you to do so. and at your very core you cant help it. (this is a general you) -
Well to be honest, it would be inappropriate. If you have someone under 18 they have not really experienced life. The real question is what would you expect from them. Yet, history has shown where arranged marriages have happened and many times it was adult men with girls as young as 14. Not sure how I would respond to that.
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@AlbeitDying That's true, thank you for your genuine answer, I also 100% do believe when you said that "you can't help it, it's a general you" Like that is so true. thanks again :)
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet It's our own thoughts, we each see things differently but at the same time we see things all the same, (depends on the subject) and I personally think your right but again, it depends on the person, because everyone has different minds, which also leads to different thoughts.
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@Rissa_TheBest I would also say that norms have changed because 100 years ago people would not question it. Consider this many your women starting at age 14 were married to much older men. Society changes as time goes on. the real question though is would it be real love?
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That again feeds right back into what we were talking about friendship. You see we all develop differently base on many factors. Region we are from, people we engage with, what we see on TV, family, religion, situations that involve us or we encounter as well as maturity level.
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@Rissa_TheBest yeah i know it's so rude
and you keep texting them first..they never be first to text..then at some point you just realize they don't care so you stop texting! -
@Nosnikda-Life-Poet depends, mainly on the people, maybe when they first start it's like a game, but when they get to know each other and make a routine to talk to each other each day... sometime i believe the person has a chance to fall in love. but still depends
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@Sarah-A-R Exactly, and at that moment you know that they really didn't care to begin with.
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Remember love takes both sides to develop. Otherwise its just a difficult situation. Communication is key. Mutual understanding is required.