I dont understand women


  • Soul Searchers

    Hi!

    I was in a relationship lately and after it I unserstood I just dont understand women.I do want to go back to dating again soon so any advices on what women like? What they dont like? What they search or hate about a guy? And what things I should be careful of? (I was burn by afew before)

    Thanks in advance for you all!



  • @Parisgirl1284 That's why I wanted to let him know not all girls are alike. I personally don't like romantic movies or really doing certain types of stereotypical romantic things. But that's just me. Just like not all men are the same neither are women. We are a sex not a religion that believes in the same things. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š



  • I would say evaluate yourself first. Are you choosing to date a certain type? What would you personally want in someone that you didn't experience with the ones you've dated? Now you have established your standards. Next you have to think, am I the kind of guy this kind of women want?

    Also have to think about what stage in life you're in because people mature with age. Some mature faster than others but generally you'll deal with more mature personalities after high school. Off the bat based on what you said about women I assumed you're a teenager.



  • ooh honey....
    we are complicated, psychotic, bitchy, and clingy. sweet, dramatic, quiet and loud. WE HAVE THINGS ONCE A MONTH CALLED PERIODS DO NOT FORGET THIS. don't always make her the first one to text, it makes her think she's annoying. try not to have too many female friends, we get suspect reeeal quick.

    1. smell good
    2. COMMUNI- FUCKIN- CATE v
    3. let her have yur fav hoodie
    4. do NOT just like her 4 her body
    5. don't act different bc yur w/ your friends
    6. don't be rude to her friends
    7. chocolate make errthang better
    8. be interested in her life- ex., friends, family, work or school
      JUST BE YOSELF PLEASE AND THANK YOU ok im done lmao ๐Ÿคฃ


  • @Random0516
    U don't understand women that's y u r not gay
    p.s. I don't understand them too



  • @Random0516 Not all women are the same so it's hard to say. I do think every human likes to be respected so that is the one thing I can say. Good luck! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š


  • Soul Searchers

    Thanks everyone for all your replys and help! I had another thought and I would really like your opinion on it. Im a pretty busy guy with my studyings at university right now and it really takes most of my time.Do you think I should try find a new gf? (I can make time for her but I wouldnt be able to be all the time near her and also I think ill be pretty busy in the future too if not more so shouldnt I just do it anyways?) Thanks a lot to everyone again it really helps



  • @Random0516 I'm especially digging the advice @Gemini_Beta has given for you. I'd give that some good consideration, and think that most of what I would say she has already covered.

    One thing I have found though, not just with me but with most friends over the years, is that the relationships which tend to be "right", which last and work best, they usually happen unexpectedly - when the two people involved are perhaps both open to a relationship but not necessarily actively looking. When you take a step back and don't put such pressure on yourself to be in a relationship, things happen and fall into place naturally instead of risking feeling forced. Plus, a person who knows they are wholly complete and valid without a partner is instantly more attractive anyway... it's sort of a confidence thing, if you follow me.

    I think what I'm saying is not to worry about it or overanalyse too much. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. Create opportunities if that is what you want, flow with life's river, and you'll do just fine. Best of luck to you.


  • One Woman Army GSP Patrol - The Proofreaders Freedom Writers

    every woman is different. I think u should be who u truly are and don't try to impress others. If a woman likes the real u, that person is 'the one' for u. ur true partner who deserves u must accept everything about u including ur wrongs and If she want's to continue with u, she would definetly tell u herself If u had done something wrong. when a woman just leaves It means she was did't want in the first place to have a long relationship with u.


  • Soul Searchers

    @Ash-33 Truuuuuuu



  • @Random0516 I think you don't need to rush. If you feel you don't have the time to have a gf you probably shouldn't have a gf. But if you meet someone and you both click that is great. ๐Ÿ˜Š



  • @Gemini_Beta I'll use me as an example. I'm a romantic. I love romance and romantic dates. I'm my opinion, all women are romantic deep down.



  • @Parisgirl1284 that was supposed to be in my opinion. Sorry



  • Not stereotypical things. Sorry. But maybe dinner or a movie. I should have mentioned my obsession with crime movies and tv shows plus my obsession with horror and thriller movies.



  • @Parisgirl1284 I don't really like the movies, too expensive. Dinner is OK but not as a first date. I don't really found those things romantic. That's why I say all us women aren't the same. Another girl said something about not having too many girls as friends and I don't agree with that at all. I guess I just don't like people to put us all in a box or for someone else to speak for me as a women. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š



  • Same. I'm Independent. I like to speak for myself. My friends are guys mostly. When I have friends that are girls they tend to bring me into all the drama. So, I'm more of a tomboy.


  • Soul Searchers

    @Littlelion12 Yeah I really do think I should think more of the type of girl I like.Im 20 now but im alittle bit more progressed in life comperred to people my age in my country and most of the time I hang out with people who or older than me in 5-6 years or ill be introverted as fuck for some periods and stay locked up in the room studying



  • @Random0516 That's why it's hard to say. You can also get yourself in trouble if you treat someone based on what another women said. I'm sure you don't treat every black person the same. We are all different. Race, sex, age, religion ect all comes into play. But treating someone with respect will never get you in trouble. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š


  • Soul Searchers

    @Gemini_Beta Yeah I dont see how I can mess that up lol. Thanks a lot!



  • It's my considered opinion that understanding women will not guarantee a relationship with one of them to be stress free. Like has been pointed out women are individuals , together making a group. A group can seem to exhibit behaviors that may be assumed consistent to each individual but could never be understood as defining any one individual's thoughts and desires.
    If you are one of those that feels dating women as a group is your goal maybe the right track is understanding women. If your wish is for a one on one relationship just make your one the best it can be and let the other one do the same.






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