I believe that love is a spirit that we can't contain, or truly claim. There are fleeting passions, but sometimes our hearts betray us, and it's common to be lead astray. One could strive to represent the qualities of love such as unconditional faith, humility, grace, patience, long-suffering, forgiveness, loyalty, and even rising above the flesh itself to overcome selfish desires, but truly I believe none should claim to be some kind of savior in love etc. Love itself chooses when to fill us with it's awesome power even as you strive to do your best to represent it. First before I make my suggestion in order to not be considered a hypocrite I confess I myself have not risen above the flesh, but Jesus suggested us not to get married because it is worldly, but for those of us who cannot contain the passions of the flesh in order to be sanctified, and blessed we should get married, but sadly my friend today all of our fellows who are weak in the flesh as we are would rather have no discretion, and give their to the world instead of one special person. It's hard, but I feel even if some of this is inaccurate there is much truth here, and if so glory to God for all things that are true.