this is a ...disturbing topic, care to shed some background? any time of violence or abuse is not tolerated here or in person
What do you think is important?
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@TheGoldenMole Dude, cowboy ain't the word for me :joy: n relax....I dont think it's important to list them in order cuz ur needs keep changing
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- Money 😈
- Intelligence
- Power
- Respect
- Fame
- Attractiveness
- Love
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@TheGoldenMole Money and cute animals of course
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@TheGoldenMole
Love might be the most beautiful emotion/feeling in the world, but it also is the most shallow and finite one (for me). The feeling of being recognised for my work is bigger than being loved, for me. When I die, I want people to take their hats off as a mark of respect for me but not cry as a sign of love. I adore the pain because it feels a part of me, however I do not wish it upon others. And the pain of losing a loved one is so intense that even Hazel Grace saved her 10 for it.Besides, I would rather be Hitler. (No explanations)
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@Lurker interesting perspective.... do you think you can love someone and lose respect for them but still love them? Or once respect is lost then love is too ?
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@Marcie-0_o said in What do you think is important?:
@TheGoldenMole Money and cute animals of course
I forgot to put cute animals in the list but you are right
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@TheGoldenMole said in What do you think is important?:
@Lurker interesting perspective.... do you think you can love someone and lose respect for them but still love them? Or once respect is lost then love is too ?
That's not love that is probably... obsession!
When you cling to someone that has lost the spark, the magic and everything that is positive but you still cling to it simply because it's kinda like your last hope / you grew used to have that something around in your life and don't know how to live without.
Love is a very complex feeling tho and i'm no love doctor, I just believe that for love to exist there has to be alot other feelings as well! -
@Wolfie_11 said in What do you think is important?:
@TheGoldenMole
Love might be the most beautiful emotion/feeling in the world, but it also is the most shallow and finite one (for me). The feeling of being recognised for my work is bigger than being loved, for me. When I die, I want people to take their hats off as a mark of respect for me but not cry as a sign of love. I adore the pain because it feels a part of me, however I do not wish it upon others. And the pain of losing a loved one is so intense that even Hazel Grace saved her 10 for it.Besides, I would rather be Hitler. (No explanations)
That’s pretty harrd core. Don’t you think if you really had a life like that, without the love, that it would be as good as, or better than, a life filled with love?
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@TheGoldenMole
I speak from experience. My love life, while it lasted, was beautiful. But my intelligence and work gained me more fandom and recognizance. Hence for me, love has taken a backseat but it doesn’t mean it will stay so for ever. I speak as of now, and as of now, I dont miss a love. -
self reliance
feelings
my familly
entertainment
freedom
having the posibility to be alone
peace
sleep
friends
food
wisdom
and all you said
except money, just give the things you can buy with money