@mr-nice-guy good start, now @dousy is right. As for learning......oh boy. Big big list. Ask what thrilled her and what didn't is good. Websites will mislead. Good Vibrations** a sex teaching center in Oakland, CA. is a great place to start, as their staff is knowledgeable, open minded and great at these odder questions. Websites i DO suggest : Fet Life(dot com), Literotica(dot com). Happy hunting!