Ok I’m wanting to chat with people who are more experienced with this so that I can be better prepared for what my partner wants. I don’t think I have a good understanding about how she wants me to engage with her. She has like a million + other women read the 50 shades series and become excited at the idea of being tied up and other things that are out of the normal or vanilla sexual experiences. Where can I learn more or who can teach me more about this?