From my experiences falling for someone is easy, but truly loving them through thick and thin isn't, so i believe love is hard. I don't get it when people say that love shouldn't be hard, it should be natural.
Loving is just not missing someone, wanting to spend time with them.
Loving is working on things together with your partner, making it work despite harsh situations,circumstances. Loving is accepting each others flaws and wokring on one's self development, where you just don't sit on the shit( problems ) you clean it and work on it. And it's not easy, especially when you are not mentally and emotionally mature enough to understand things and deal with them properly.
When you are with someone you don't just get to know that person only, you also get to know more about yourself as well, and trust me knowing and accepting ourself is harder than accepting others 💀
And i would say accepting ourselves and others doesn't mean we gonna put up or ignore the poor behaviour, both party needs to work on it.
So my dear @Ruth it has always been this kind of love in my life where it takes time,efforts,forgiveness,acceptance, self improvement to truly love someone.
Or maybe i was just too fucked to begin with that's why i had it hard 😭😭 🖤💔
And i feel like i got distracted from the main topic idk 💀
Anyways if you need advice about love life you know who to ask right 😏
A week of ignoring my boyfriend
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If he doesnt care that i dont talk to him for a week, he gets a dump, but of he somehow fixes this, ill tell.
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there's this saying, "love is like a bird, you need to let it go, and if it returns to you, it's yours to keep". that kinda applies here, right? o.o....
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Day 1, hes being a dickhead and is using my words against me :))))
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Shouldn't you just tell him what the issue is? Most Men dont understand these stuff
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@Alireza-iran Already did, tried to explain to him but hes dense
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You can't expect him to guess what made you if you don't make it clear
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@snpem69 I explained to him but still nope, he keep saying the same things over and over again
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Day 2, this man doesnt knows that im still mad at him, i might be dumping him tommorow actually, im done with this guy
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Good luck...
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Day 3, i broke up with him, he admits on cheating so..
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@ケイデンス-小島 Cheers to freedom!
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@ㅤㅤ cheers indeed