Posts made by Zelda99

@Lazz Thank you for your kind and encouraging words. I hope you are able to go back to work soon and get back to a more rewarding way of life for yourself.
All the best,
@Zelda99

@Sybaritee Over 24 yrs you don’t think I’ve told him? It’s a constant source of arguments. But at some point you get sick of the fighting. And it’s always turned back on me.

@roastbait666 Seek counseling.

Try Tylenol or midol and a heating pad. Also as soon as you feel it coming on try some relaxation techniques. Try to stay calm and don’t fight the pain just try to keep your muscles relaxed. Hot baths help too. But if you find that every month you’re in unbearable pain talk to your mom or dad. Get to a doctor and don’t be scared an exam is really not that bad. They can see if everything is ok and possibly prescribe you birth control pills in order to regulate your hormones, make your flow lighter and less painful. Good luck. I’ve been there.

@BoredomKills Appreciate the thoughts but it takes two and he doesn’t want to be bothered. It’s all about his happiness.

Yeah, I was hoping to find some conversation here but like you said it’s a bunch of perverts for the most part. My husband and I got married too young. I was 20 but had never dated because I came from a very strict religious sect that didn’t allow casual dating. So within 2 weeks of dating (with chaperones) he kept hinting at marriage. I really did like him but wasnt really my type at all. I’m tall he’s short, I love to think and talk about deep things, he likes cars and trains and is resentful that I don’t care about his hobbies. I go to car shows and model railroad shows and I hate it. I want to cook a great meal, go for a walk or a bike ride, have a group game night, go to concerts and travel. But I gave up having a career, a family, and a life of my own when I married him. Anyway, married 24 yrs last week (after only 8 months of dating) and his idea of fun was driving me 2 hrs away to go test drive an old corvette. Of which we don’t even have the money to buy. He never plans anything for my birthday’s and doesn’t have a clue what I like or am interested in. I miss talking to someone who actually want to engage with me, who cares about what I think and feel. Who doesn’t think I’m just an overly emotional woman who just wants to complain. I mean I gave up everything to make this marriage last. But he does nothing. I hate my life but I love him and don’t know how to be anything else. Sorry just had to vent.

Beautiful to read something intelligent in this cesspool of oversexed 14 yr olds and the deviants looking for them. Just because I’m lonely it doesn’t mean I’m alone. I crave deep conversations and awe-inspiring insights. I miss laughter and joy. I hate this world but I love life-just not mine in particular. Than you for sharing your thoughts.

I have problems. Lots of health ones especially but not cancer. I just saw your post and wanted you to know that I am hoping for your health to return and that although I don’t know you I am sending you my love and the strength to get through all that you are facing. Best wishes.

Anyone out there married for a long time but have always been lonely? My husband has his business and hobbies and I feel like I don’t exist. I’m introverted but I hate having no one to talk to. I love to laugh and have deep conversations but I have no one to do that with. Plus everyone has kids and I don’t. I just feel left out of life.