Posts made by Vacuity

@Lazz Same here

Hot chocolate
Playing music
Poetry, both writing and reading

I have a punching bag. But most of all, poetry.

Ambidextryous. I hope I won't loose it...

I would definitely appreciate a good old open minded debate. And i don't have any preference on the subject either.

Thoughtful. But I am not feeling much.

First have a thought for those who are not eating while reading this. Don't post picture, don't make them hungry as hell.

Well my fist is obvious : hot chocolate ☕😀
The best one being the one from the Flore in Venice.

Second would be Kouign-Amann.

Third : a really well cooked rack of roe cheer with berry jam.

Fourth : lamb backed for nine hours at low temperature.

Fifth : Cold Limoncello.

Sixth : Very well made peking duck with hot honey.

Those are only illustrations. I am not taking pictures of what I eat. I only take time to appreciate the taste.

And that is all for now. It is your turn !

And i am very kind. Here have some hot chocolate ☕.

Here have some more and more... ☕...
I enjoy talking with you.

Happy for your two !
And to celebrate that...
Here have some hot chocolate☕!

Hi. If you consider your former relationship to be an unhealthy one, it is only wise to avoid it.

However the matter is about the ones you care about and the relationship you can hope and want to build with them. But not only the later.
Therefore even if you seem already decided, I have no clue to wich one you should choose.
But consider this. You also seem to know them both well so you know what to expect from them. It may seems a little empty for an advise but you should consider following your greatest desire, and not let yourself stoped by the past behavioural, but rather take your decision according to what you can expect to achieve -and more importantly- what you feel and desire. It works for both of them though.

O my I hope this was useful but I have my doubts.

Belive what you wish.

The means to really erase something from ones mind makes it totally not worth it. You'll have to bear it until it doesn't comes to your mind anymore.
However I can give you a few tricks to make it quicker.
1 - find a good reason for not wanting to think about this. The best one you can. And then repeat it to yourself each time you do.
2 - picture a bottomless room. Put everything you don't want to see in your head in this bottomless room. Picture them falling endlessly without anything to grab. Let them fall into oblivion and only to keep falling.
3 - redirect your thought. If you think of someone else than your fiance, find what is appealing for you and try to find it in her.

But at the end those are techniques to alter your own mind. You need to ask yourself of you really want to go that far.
4 - protect your mind as a holy private space. Use it as you wish, and never let someone else dictate you what should be inside. Don't alter yourself when you can do otherwise.

No one will read your mind. If you want to fantasize just do it. And behave if you have to.

I hope it was not too much arrogant of me to say this. But I wish I helped you. Good luck.

I have no memories of that time.

A feeling of vacuity indeed. But also curiosity, frustration, the heady sensation of intensity because I simply can't stop thinking, the destroying sensation of saturation when it becomes too intense to bear. And that's all I can steel feel : whatever the situation is, nothing more.

Or if we let the scientific point of view aside, we can try to define time by the perspective we have of it.
But the idea of time differs from individuals to individuals. From that point on searching for a common definition seems to be useless. However if we don't try this approach and only consider scientifical definition, we won get to see how people behave according to their perception of time.
So then time must be considered like both a basic concept and it subjective perception.
Don't you think ?

@us-poet thank you !

Well I am interested.

@sammy you would be biased if you knew.

Marvel indeed.