You need to be strong and either leave or talk to your partner about the mental abuse. It will only get worse if not. Love take work and communication. You need to feel appreciated.

If your not intimate anymore, the relationship is over. You should discuss divorce with him. The longer you stay in this unhappy relationship the less time you will have to find a happy meaningful one. I have been married 28 years. It has been loveless for the past seven years. She is unhealthy now and can't support herself. So I can't leave, I would be an ***hole. So I stay. We have no intimacy and probably never will again. Don't let this happen to you