I can't give advice or anything to you. But I did experience being molested 3 times as well. And by experience I can tell you that being molested will leave her some after effects. Maybe she's afraid at him even right now and is pretending only for the sake of appearance. I'm not sure but I do the same thing. I feel awkward and angry being in the same room with my molester but can't do anything about since I feel ashamed of what happen. Just be with her side and try talking to her make her understand that you'll never leave her and that she's okay to do anything because you're right there beside her. God bless to the both of you. Keep safe.