Posts made by STPCTICDWTBPOIAF

As drama has appeared (thank God), I am compelled to join in. It is quite funny to see how so many people are against catfishing done by a user, meanwhile the owner himself has a considerate amount of accounts to catfish as female and has previously asked people for nudes. Fuck the "cut off the head of the snake" saying, glad to see that mods are not publicly announcing any of these. The irony is that you expect to find genuine people on a website based on a lie, but sure, let's promote this cancel culture furthermore. "What a disgrace, so inacceptable", bitch please, it is nothing uncommon here, it is like people are joining the internet for the first time.
@Kasper Cookie with all due respect, if you truly think that sup is trolling, please leave your bubble before someone bursts it and accept the reality.
@sup Congratulations, you've finally transcended from your indian nature, look at us, took some time to finally agree on something.

Try listening to actually good songs and the bad ones will go away.

@NiaRox I did not dismantle your statement, but what it answers to.

You folks are missing the point she is making.
@Alicey2k It is because the social media is trying to compensate for the past I would say. You're a white man having a bad opinion towards black people or women? Expect to be cancelled, especially on Twitter. It doesn't even happen only between white to black, but from man to woman. Nowadays, people build their social constructs based on their fears, on their insecurities. You can see fat acceptance movement. It used to stand for something great in the past, for understanding and feeling empathy for those that are physically disabled or overweight but try to change. Now, it is all about some fat chicks promoting obesity and saying that being obese doesn't affect your health. Same goes with racism. They have had a rough life centuries ago, now we compensate by "protecting" them in any way we can. It is just this liberal shit that people are being indoctrinated with. I feel like this quote is appropiate here, "It takes a strong man to deny what's in front of him. And if the truth is undeniable, you create your own. "
TL:DR: Easily offended people tend to ignore the facts and live in their fantasy.

Too bad such topics are being slept on, it looks like you're singing songs to the deaf. Your topics are genuinely thrilling (except for the trivial travel one, not my cup of tea at least). It is not the platform that brings you back, but the need of having a conversation.
As for this topic, think of the habit of checking the fridge every few minutes. You might not do this, but plenty of people do. Dopamine is being released after pleasant activities, such as eating. Hence, people try to seek "happiness" this way. However, please let me state that your logic if flawed if you are going to make a correlation between the drugs people use and their success. The Big Bang Theory had Sheldon Cooper, The Mentalist had Patrick Jane, Lie to me had Cal Lightman. None of them were addicted to anything. Well, not any physical substance. Both Patrick and Cal have found greatness (please tell me you've seen at least one of the two) through what I consider the best catalyst: pain. Oh, and even more, the actors are usually far from the way you consider them after watching one show - you like to portray them as being esoteric, revered; as unique and smart as they appear on the shows. Most of the times, it is not the case.
I personally come around for the (really, really small) odds of bumping into such topics, where you see depth in conversation, the joy of writing, expression; I usually use my friends as cannoon fodder for my long texts.
Great movie selection you've made, will surely check the few that I have not seen on that list. As this topic of yours truly stirred interest, I did check your others, but it is already too much to write in one message, I might bring death to the low bandwith of this website.

No idea why you're asking for a fast reply, after all you've waited for months. Also, you ask us - strangers to your ex - about what's going within his mind and from his perspective of view. If you've spent almost 3 years together, you should already know everything about him, from fight-or-flight responses to how he sees your former relationship.
Leaving all these aside, I would personally say that the odds are not in your favor. You chose its death, let it stay so for months; then, when he has finally moved on (if he ever did so) and you started to miss him, you wish for his comeback. Also, the mistakes, if they were truly impactful, I don't know what makes you think that they are not going to repeat themselves. As Paulo Coelho said, "Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time."