As drama has appeared (thank God), I am compelled to join in. It is quite funny to see how so many people are against catfishing done by a user, meanwhile the owner himself has a considerate amount of accounts to catfish as female and has previously asked people for nudes. Fuck the "cut off the head of the snake" saying, glad to see that mods are not publicly announcing any of these. The irony is that you expect to find genuine people on a website based on a lie, but sure, let's promote this cancel culture furthermore. "What a disgrace, so inacceptable", bitch please, it is nothing uncommon here, it is like people are joining the internet for the first time.
@Kasper Cookie with all due respect, if you truly think that sup is trolling, please leave your bubble before someone bursts it and accept the reality.
@sup Congratulations, you've finally transcended from your indian nature, look at us, took some time to finally agree on something.

@Liliputian You tell me!

Lovely ending to the story, I must confess. The accused was banned, but there had to be made a whole topic as a public humiliation process. Under no circumstances I am inclining in the favor of the defendant - I am merely pondering upon the meticulous, strategical approach of the issue. I cannot wait for the next person to make a wrong step and see another debasement/shaming procedure!

Too bad such topics are being slept on, it looks like you're singing songs to the deaf. Your topics are genuinely thrilling (except for the trivial travel one, not my cup of tea at least). It is not the platform that brings you back, but the need of having a conversation.
As for this topic, think of the habit of checking the fridge every few minutes. You might not do this, but plenty of people do. Dopamine is being released after pleasant activities, such as eating. Hence, people try to seek "happiness" this way. However, please let me state that your logic if flawed if you are going to make a correlation between the drugs people use and their success. The Big Bang Theory had Sheldon Cooper, The Mentalist had Patrick Jane, Lie to me had Cal Lightman. None of them were addicted to anything. Well, not any physical substance. Both Patrick and Cal have found greatness (please tell me you've seen at least one of the two) through what I consider the best catalyst: pain. Oh, and even more, the actors are usually far from the way you consider them after watching one show - you like to portray them as being esoteric, revered; as unique and smart as they appear on the shows. Most of the times, it is not the case.
I personally come around for the (really, really small) odds of bumping into such topics, where you see depth in conversation, the joy of writing, expression; I usually use my friends as cannoon fodder for my long texts.
Great movie selection you've made, will surely check the few that I have not seen on that list. As this topic of yours truly stirred interest, I did check your others, but it is already too much to write in one message, I might bring death to the low bandwith of this website.

@sup Who is but the form following the function of what. I did give you a hint earlier. "It's there for anyone to see if you know where to look."

@Bela-Hella Pleased to hear that, however the quintessence of my writings is to be found in the meaning, not the superficial layer of it. Fine words butter no parsnips.

@purple Since you're so kind to explain everything, could you please show me the place Wicked took the poems from? I did try finding it multiple times, and that was part of the accusation.

No idea why you're asking for a fast reply, after all you've waited for months. Also, you ask us - strangers to your ex - about what's going within his mind and from his perspective of view. If you've spent almost 3 years together, you should already know everything about him, from fight-or-flight responses to how he sees your former relationship.
Leaving all these aside, I would personally say that the odds are not in your favor. You chose its death, let it stay so for months; then, when he has finally moved on (if he ever did so) and you started to miss him, you wish for his comeback. Also, the mistakes, if they were truly impactful, I don't know what makes you think that they are not going to repeat themselves. As Paulo Coelho said, "Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time."

@Karenluvsjesus So much hate to a catfish when you yourself admitted to catfishing. Today's word, hypocrisy.

I would specifically tell you "don't cheat", but I am aware you cannot follow through.

@HotSaucePan Thank you, I did attempt the "divide et impera", I was expecting not to find the whole poem, but rather 4 verses that rhymed at least. But why struggle so much when there source has already been discovered?

P.S: I cannot fathom how great your relationship with your boyfriend is, but if you have to fake your texts, I rather not indulge myself in asking.

@Highlighter Rude person here. Thank you kindly for the suggestion, however we do not affiliate with people driven by the breeding instincts. That being said, I do wish you would share Pluto with them.

@Jumanly_Nibby Judgemental? Indeed, however, not due to this. I simply stated my opinion, read the title and you will find the purpose. He did not ask for cheer-ups.
"Brutally words that you can not filter". How is anything that I've stated considered brutal? They are neither good nor bad. They are just traits. "To speak the truth among people who do not want to hear it is considered almost an aggressive act".
"better for your healing time". You have already assumed that something is wrong with him, are you certain that your "judgemental" reply wasn't a projection of yourself?
Quite difficult to come with logic when having a "comeback" is all you yearn for. I could very much advise you to head back to the Live Chat, the maturity (better said, the lack of it) fits you well.

@Jumanly_Nibby Translation for those too bored to read your post: You banned me, therefore I am throwing dumb statements all around the place in order to feel better after the incident.

Hi this girl @Baby_Kina is looking for me (the first 4 letters of my nickname, to be more precise).

I would specifically tell you "don't cheat", but I am aware you cannot follow through.

In order to be able to change your mind, you need one. No can do.

Lack of empathy, outspoken and with no interest in small-talk, yet that is solely my opinion. Manipulating others? Not really, just deceiving/presenting yourself as something you are not. Try talking to people you resonate with/have at least some common interests, even though it might take a lot of time to find those. Making you bad? Opinions will be different, some people might consider you that, but at the end of the day, you are not defined by their perspectives.

@Braxton18 I'm sure that Millie would agree with that mouth of yours!

At first, I genuinely thought of being serious, but I simply cannot. I expected @Bees to be the girl, but all I see are two bitches.

@HotSaucePan Thank you, I did attempt the "divide et impera", I was expecting not to find the whole poem, but rather 4 verses that rhymed at least. But why struggle so much when there source has already been discovered?

P.S: I cannot fathom how great your relationship with your boyfriend is, but if you have to fake your texts, I rather not indulge myself in asking.