Well, I think the one who would like to pay should pay.
At my first date - with my recent boyfriend - I saw at his face that he would like to pay, for reasons that felt good for him.
Nowadays sometimes it's my turn to pay, other times it's his turn again. Actually it is just something we could discuss, and just talk about it. Very easy.
Well, probably if a guy was divorced twice.
That's a no for me, but only because after two divorces the man would be way older than me (':
@lucifer_ Hmm. Well, 3-4 years aren't very promising, right? If he had two marriages and they never last longer than 5 years.
But probably if I'm really in love, then I could put aside that he had already two divorces. If the guy is really fun and I Love him, well. Than a divorce mustn't be the problem, but hopefully the relationship with me will be longer than 4 years.
@lucifer_ Hmm. Well, 3-4 years aren't very promising, right? If he had two marriages and they never last longer than 5 years.
But probably if I'm really in love, then I could put aside that he had already two divorces. If the guy is really fun and I Love him, well. Than a divorce mustn't be the problem, but hopefully the relationship with me will be longer than 4 years.
Why the letter?
Just talk to him! Ask if he wants to hang out someday?
If he is not in for a date, than you could always say that you would like to hang out just as friends. (Hopefully in that way you could avoid awkward situations)
Well, probably if a guy was divorced twice.
That's a no for me, but only because after two divorces the man would be way older than me (':
Well, I think the one who would like to pay should pay.
At my first date - with my recent boyfriend - I saw at his face that he would like to pay, for reasons that felt good for him.
Nowadays sometimes it's my turn to pay, other times it's his turn again. Actually it is just something we could discuss, and just talk about it. Very easy.