@kaia_ being kind is easy ,anyone can be kind. Being lovable isn't too hard either, but it takes a special person to be understanding and considerate.

They say drowning is the most peaceful way to die. I don't know who "they" are though.

They say drowning is the most peaceful way to die. I don't know who "they" are though.

@kaia_ being kind is easy ,anyone can be kind. Being lovable isn't too hard either, but it takes a special person to be understanding and considerate.

is it wierd or normal to answer that question asked by someone who may be wierd or normal or wierdly normal or normally wierd?

Having lived for over half a century I would have to say that you must see a persons entire life to make a fair and true judgement . I saw a man one day he was yelling at this other person ,using profanity and being very hateful and I thought what an a-hole. Later I learned that he had lost his wife and three children in a car accident several days prior. See how wrong I was ? Dont judge cuz you never know the whole story