a month before I joined, I found this on google. some friend from youtube suggested. sometimes I chatted on the section without registration trying to find new friends. After a month I realized about my dad having cancer and was so depressed. I couldn't even cry cause I didn't know how I was feeling. I called my bestfriend and she was silent for half an hour and didn't help me or maybe even try, I am not sure. Then I signed up here and posted about my dad and recivied great replies from very kind people who tried to comfort me and even shared their experiences and......... I am here now :)
Best posts made by pardis2001
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RE: Why did you join this site?
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RE: My friend's birthday is coming up...
surprise her. gather in her home or ur home and when she comes in, jump in her face!! Do it a time when she doesn't expect it. For gift maybe a necklace that has a match and u can both wear. There are many options. U can also write a letter for her and show ur love and friendship in it. tell her how much u are happy to have her as ur friend and deliver it to her in the first minutes of her birthday like 00:00!!!!!!!!!!!! I know It may sounds silly but not everything should be bought with money and be expensive. sometimes words are the best
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RE: Friendship or relationship??
Right now I will choose relationship. Friendship usually doesn't remain till the end. When u go to college, u loose high school friends. When u go to work, u loose college friends and get new ones. This mostly happened unless both sides stick together which happened rarely. I'm now tired of always be the one who sticks to the end. I prefer a GOOD relationship which I know will end happily and be with him to the end!!!
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RE: So long and farewell, I'm leaving
Its really sad to loose someone like you from here. you know there are a few here who really care about others and try to help and share their thoughts and beliefs to discuss. I totally understand what you are saying cause I have the same experience and It bothers me a lot when I have said in my bio DONT MASSAGE ME FOR SEXTING and they dont even bother themselves to read my bio. they just see ' yeah a girl' and they follow and massage. So this is understandable that you wanna leave. Thank you for the time you were here :)
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RE: All things must pass
NOOOOOOOOO.... please don't leave. what would we do without someone like you here.....maybe you can put a bit time each day here???? It's not fun for me anymore too. I'm visiting here now after 2 days. But I just come to see posts and replies from people like you. But whatever you do, That's ur desicion and I want the best things for u and u to be happy and comfortable. Thank u for the time you've been here :)
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RE: I am a bit lonely, all i am having r suicidal thoughts, please someone help me
Please talk to us. say whats wrong. maybe we can help u. even If we cant, we would support u with our words. Dont do anything you will regret later. I have experienced something like this. Just please try to contact to someone or go to a public place.
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RE: anyone have diseases/ailments?
I had major depression 5 months ago and now I have dysthymia (Persistent depressive disorder) a level lower than major depression like I don't have suicide thoughts now in this level(the only difference). I have anemia too but It's not severe as long as I take my medicines. and a very rare brain condition( which is not a disease)that any medication and drug related to my brain like most painkillers get rejected by my brain and have negative effects on my body. So I basically don't use any painkillers even If I have any ache in my body I must wait so It will get better n its own!! :/ It's so complicated and I don't think about it.
I am alive and I can do my daily work so that's enough for me. :) I am happy with what I have even these problems which are nothing to some other people with bigger problems like cancer
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RE: Why did you join this site?
@Mia-x Thank u so much dear. I really appreciate this . He is doing really better. he is gonna have surgery next month. hopefully It would go well :)
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RE: I need some help here.
u can remove it. I have seen people doing it. ask one of the moderators. If u wanna get banned just reply in every single post u see "hey u wanna have a good conversation with me" with some pervy things plus a fake number .I will flag u!!!
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RE: @How many idiots does it take to find genuine people
you can see their posts and replies first. It's usually clear that the person is here for what.
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RE: Help me please? :P
well maybe first u should remove ur ex bestie from this group and confront her urself. tell her that as his girlfriend u dont like her approach and ask her what the actual fuck she wants.then I think the best way is talking to ur boyfriend about this matter and be completely honest with him. tell him that u have talk to that girl and she is bothering u. ask him to put a stop on this. trust me. If a boy really wants u, would put a stop on this just so u can be comfortable but If ur boyfriend doesnt do anything and ignore this matter, maybe he just likes the attention he is getting. Just a firm response from ur boyfriend to ur ex would end this
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RE: My friend's birthday is coming up...
nice!! give me the results later then!
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RE: seperate the IM HERE FOR NUDEZ/ vs FRIENDS
Finally a man who has such a idea. I was beginning to think every male just wants sexting even when they say 'hey lets be friends'. Glad to see there are a few different here.
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RE: What do you do if you are under 16 and pregnant and want to move in with your 18-year-old boyfriend but your mom will not agree to it?
Your mom only wants the best for you. You are a part of her. She cares more than you can imagine. Just listen to her and block other thoughts and emotions in urself. This is a very important stage in ur life.
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RE: Did you know ? the numer of devices connected to internet...
Im afraid one day these smart things will rule over us!
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RE: I need help with my new blog!!
with dedicating ur blog to just one topic u will have certain followers and can get wellknown better(in future maybe a quite long time). But Its harder to get followers cause u just publish about a certain thing and just the fans come to ur blog. If u write about every thing, u will probably have more views and comments . You can use the mix one first and see how Its going. I think u will get encouraged too.
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RE: Ugh I miss my mom 😭😞
u can call her and have video call too even for hours in a day. but Its understandable That u miss her a lot now. u will get used to it. just try to be positive and strong so ur mother wouldnt get upset
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RE: What would u do if u were surronded by opposite gender
I would be scared as hell!!! Even If they are all gentlemen and nice people! I don't know how to react and would get confused and probably wouldn't say anything when they ask me questions!!I can be comfortable just If I know one of them from before so I will JUST talk to him!
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RE: I wrote this about 6months ago...
It has a beautiful meaning. I dont know much about poems actually I dont get usually their meaning, but urs is easier for me to understand and relate. I think in some parts It had lost the rhythm and song. But as I said I dont know much. Take this as an opinion from a very ordinary reader!! But I hope u continue writing and posting here. Im looking forward to ur poems from now