Posts made by OrigBigSexy

tried to dm you but it said you had to be following me? That is in order to chat with you.

sure would like to chat if you have time and interested in your opinion on something related to a topic you posted previously anyway

I noticed you have not posted about this in a while...have things gotten any better or has your situation changed

@Kina_Joy just curious but why do you think you cannot find anyone better...what, as in how far driving flying etc, long distance are we talking and with you all’s history knowing each other, time together etc you just decided to end it...could you not move there, can he relocate at a later time etc...seems like if distance is the only deciding factor that some remedy exists...sorry for all of the questions and prying but this is what these types of chats are all about...I have had to help several friends go through some messy divorces and breakups recently so maybe I am just being too pushy but good relationships are hard to find and are worth fighting for if their true substance is strong and solid then sometimes if it was not as it seemed or appeared and based on a more non significant level it can be best you cut your losses so to speak and move on...I realize you already know most of this stuff or have thought about it at length or experienced it firsthand but sometimes the people we think are our friends and or love us in reality are not and do not...it sucks but it is what it is and hearing it again can help...when anyone shows you their true self whether it be in friendship or a relationship believe them do not doubt...sorry for rambling but this helps me too I just ended a long time long distance relationship somewhat recently myself so I apologize in advance for the novel I just wrote