Its worse if either were given the "silver spoon"
But in a male dominant world (still is by the way), they make most of the stereotypes, rules, and whatever government in power. It goes along with businesses supporting those guys who run. Boys are taught to be financially independent because no one will take care of them. So in general they have to be able to support themselves first before raising a family. Not all boys can manage their wallet, the amount of money they make depends solely on their skill sets...not so much looks.
With girls in society, there is too much social media conflicting with their "ideals" portrayed differently than who they are individually. Girsl have a lot to work with same as their boy counterparts, but it shouldn't be unfair.
Gender roles are changing now than before like in the 60's. There is too much taboo about what each person thinks, when really we have to cooperate