Best posts made by lil_shouboutai

I am dating an extreme introvert and I am not sure how. We have been doing fine but i can see him drifting way and wanting more and more space... any tips on how to date an introvert?

I am giving him the time he wants but I want to send him a message, just to let him know i am here for him, to know he was me to rely on but I don't want to disrespect his wishes... I have never dated an introvert and i want him to know that I am trying and want to understand but at the same time... I want him to understand where I am coming from and this is hard for me.

@kaia_ Thank you for your advice! It's just getting hard cause I am not use to this. Giving someone days, weeks, months, time without seeing them or hearing from them. I am trying to respect their wish but I want to send a text here or there just so they know I am there for them... but I don't want to bother them.

@kaia_ Thank you so much for the advice. That is a big help to know more and not be so overwhelming.

Is is possible to repair the damage? How do you even lose someone's trust?

Can someone recommend any games on Steam that are fun to play? I like action and adventure games but I also like calming games. Currently playing Stardew Valley.

@Ash Thank you! That does help:blush:

@Hunter-Nebid yes and thank you so much. I really need it but i need to process it first cause if not, it was just be a lot of rambling. me letting out of my frustration, my sadness, anger, and even blaming...

@Ash yes, that's totally fine. Thank you!

Has anyone seen the Demon Slayer: Infinity Train movie?!!

@Lily17 I haven't asked for a 2nd chance yet, I want to get into a good head place before reaching out. But how long should you before reaching out when they asked to leave them alone. I know there is no such thing as perfect timing and time is something we can not get back...

@Thales_BG thank you! Are there any futuristic kind of games as well?!

@Janet thank you for the idea of a cute gif... I did that and it worked! it was a single reply but at least it was reply and happy to hear from them!

@Lily17 thank you! It is hard asking for a 2nd chance especially when you know they can say no and not care anymore. Do we deserve 2nd chances when we are at fault too?

@Janet thank you so much! I’ll look into the games but that’s a great list to start with!

@The-Mods both are tough, to change yourself for someone is never good. you should change yourself for you. And to leave someone who you care for is rough... I wish i could be a person who just walks away and not care.

@Hunter-Nebid thank you but right now I am trying to process everything. Like what is trust even? how do you give it to someone?

@Ash what is trust? How do even earn it in the first place?

@Hunter-Nebid Thank you! I am trying to figure how to earn someone's trust back who is currently not talking to me. I honestly have no idea how I lost their trust.

I am in an open relationship and I am struggling. I knew going in he has been with the other person for years, I thought it would be nothing, like a quick hookup but we are full dating. I am his girlfriend and he refers her to as his partner. I am not okay with the relationship anymore. I want to be with him but this is becoming too hard. I am compromising who I am to be with him... I just need some advice from someone who is or has been in an open relationship. Thank you!