@debsvalentino that’s some pretty deep stuff here. Lol am not one to give advice the heart want what it wants so follow what it says 🤷‍♀️look deep within yourself you will know the answer without asking for advice from others it may hurt others in the picture it may not 🤷‍♀️. Irrespective of what situation is there just remember to love yourself first your allowed to be selfish.😉✌️