I had met my now ex 4 years ago, and we had a pretty good relationship. We dated all through college and had the time of our lives, but then came when we graduated. We lived two hours away from each other which shouldn’t be a problem but I guess it was for her. We struggled with fights and arguments all the way till October, where she had an emotional affair with some guy from her work. Naturally she apologized and reluctantly I gave her a second chance. Things seemed to go well until at the end of December she started talking to the guy again, I didn’t find out but a few weeks ago but I demanded that she shouldn’t be talking to him and she needs to block him, she got all upset and said that she doesn’t want anything with the guy so it shouldn’t matter, but she also reluctantly agreed and blocked him on snap and deleted his number. Come yesterday she started following him on Instagram, I felt betrayed and cheated on yet again, I told her she needs to block him and she refused saying that he’s just a number on her IG. I broke up with her that moment, but still want closure from her, I still want to check up on her but she’s just a terrible person feeing no remorse for what she’s done seeing it as nothing, it even took her till mid December to even admit what happened in October was cheating. Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated

I had met my now ex 4 years ago, and we had a pretty good relationship. We dated all through college and had the time of our lives, but then came when we graduated. We lived two hours away from each other which shouldn’t be a problem but I guess it was for her. We struggled with fights and arguments all the way till October, where she had an emotional affair with some guy from her work. Naturally she apologized and reluctantly I gave her a second chance. Things seemed to go well until at the end of December she started talking to the guy again, I didn’t find out but a few weeks ago but I demanded that she shouldn’t be talking to him and she needs to block him, she got all upset and said that she doesn’t want anything with the guy so it shouldn’t matter, but she also reluctantly agreed and blocked him on snap and deleted his number. Come yesterday she started following him on Instagram, I felt betrayed and cheated on yet again, I told her she needs to block him and she refused saying that he’s just a number on her IG. I broke up with her that moment, but still want closure from her, I still want to check up on her but she’s just a terrible person feeing no remorse for what she’s done seeing it as nothing, it even took her till mid December to even admit what happened in October was cheating. Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated