@wet-teri
Perhaps It wasn't obvious, but I did indeed address both possible meanings to the question asked.
I spoke about what I found attractive and what makes me like a person.
Please re-read below in reference to what I like about a person.
"As for what I like in a person, general and simple kindness also goes a long way with me, I don't always feel nice but I do try my best haha. The way I look at it, people having and showing simple kindness is rare it seems in today's society so treat others the way you wish to be treated I say."
Also, I agree about your overall point. Looks have nothing to do with a connection you might have with a person.