Unfortunately, we are who we are. We have to sometimes, just learn to deal with it. One thing I learned about society is, if one issue is resolved, we will find another to fight about. It almost seems like, we look for trouble or fault, and with that mentality we will find one.. Look for trouble, you will find it. So, best way to see it is, make the best of what you got, and move on.. IT is What it Is.. Change happens slow, and sometimes, that is good. Because people's mind is slow to change.