@willoww -throughout life we meet so many people in real life and social media. Most of the people will hurt us, but the truth is that people don't hurt us but the expectations in our mind makes us feel betrayed. But there will be very few people who will stick to your side.
U may feel like changing ur self will change everything, but the truth is after sometime you will feel that you have lost the true person inside you. So just be the way you are let the people judge you and keep their judgements with themself.At the end of the day one should be happy from inside.As far as I have known you from your posts, U are strong.Keep the attitude on.
anup123
@anup123
A sojourner, returning to self. Loves to read,write ....a foodie ,it goes on and on
Best posts made by anup123
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RE: HERE IS TO NEW FRIENDS AND NEW ME
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RE: WHATS ONE THING THAT CAN IRRITATE YOU EASILY?
Fake smile,fake people..people who speak to us only when they need u , that fake smile and fake talks all together it feels like to punch on their nose.
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RE: Me being me, and saying fuck life.
Yes :😀 many times, then I just start ro think, what the hell it would be like after we die... If its like getting back with all those strange people who has already died and if we end up in some other dimension which is worse than this world.if the other dimension don't have any utilities... Just think if we reach somewhere, the graham bell is still trying to invent phone,Sir einstein,Sir newton,Sir edison is still struggling with their inventions... Somewhere hitler is ruling, budha preaching.... Etc
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RE: What did your last relation ship teach you?
Nothing much....But made me realise 1 thing, we will never overcome the love or the affection to that person. We can act as we have forgot ,but we cannot stop caring for the person.
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RE: Do you consider a suicidal person a “coward”?
@willoww -I personally feel it should gnot be called a suicidal person a brave person, nor he or she is a coward...There are some people who take a decision within no period of time and some of them try suicide,some of them realise themselves its an idiotic gesture when that particular moment is interrupted. Some people on the other hand try suicides for after thinking it for a long time, we cannot judge them, we don't know what mental state they are going through. They try it when they think that there is no hope left,and the people who call them coward are just critics who has never gone through that trauma which a person goes and reaches the breaking point. But I could call these suicidal people fools, as they don't see the people who are effected by their death,they don't see the people who are around them to love them.They don't realise how they push someone to grief for the entire life.
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RE: WHAT TWS WAS, IS, AND CAN BE
I have seen a post about suggestions from you earlier too. Its a good cause and u ppl are putting a lot of time and energy. Keep going !
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RE: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SURVING AND LIVING
@stranger_danger - This seems much similar to what I have did..but the initial 8 years its a bit different....I used to dress up clean,speak humble,work my ass out but nothing made me happy but it seemed like I am the happiest person on earth to my family...But now I left my job, started farming, I wear whatever I want, I don't answer to anyone, I am happy but now I want to get rid of the people who advice.
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RE: Whats better black girls or white?
Bad question....skin tone is not the parameter to decide personality.
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RE: Bye everyone Imma miss yall
@BOOTS22 - Im new to this place and I don't know what you have been through. But I just know that,we have a common problem. We worry so much about 1 thing that we forget the other blessings that we have. Just take some time and think about all the good things and people around us.Initially it will be difficult to think about 1. once you get 1 thing then it will be followed by many,I can assure u that.
Latest posts made by anup123
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RE: Do you consider a suicidal person a “coward”?
@willoww -I personally feel it should gnot be called a suicidal person a brave person, nor he or she is a coward...There are some people who take a decision within no period of time and some of them try suicide,some of them realise themselves its an idiotic gesture when that particular moment is interrupted. Some people on the other hand try suicides for after thinking it for a long time, we cannot judge them, we don't know what mental state they are going through. They try it when they think that there is no hope left,and the people who call them coward are just critics who has never gone through that trauma which a person goes and reaches the breaking point. But I could call these suicidal people fools, as they don't see the people who are effected by their death,they don't see the people who are around them to love them.They don't realise how they push someone to grief for the entire life.
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RE: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SURVING AND LIVING
@nik-sub-blz - That's really good outlook which u have written over here. But As said by someone "Everyone is at war with themselves", and its the most hostile situation compared to the war zones where people fight to each other. Fighting our inner feelings is most difficult.fear of death is totally different.
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RE: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SURVING AND LIVING
@stranger_danger - This seems much similar to what I have did..but the initial 8 years its a bit different....I used to dress up clean,speak humble,work my ass out but nothing made me happy but it seemed like I am the happiest person on earth to my family...But now I left my job, started farming, I wear whatever I want, I don't answer to anyone, I am happy but now I want to get rid of the people who advice.
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RE: HERE IS TO NEW FRIENDS AND NEW ME
@willoww -throughout life we meet so many people in real life and social media. Most of the people will hurt us, but the truth is that people don't hurt us but the expectations in our mind makes us feel betrayed. But there will be very few people who will stick to your side.
U may feel like changing ur self will change everything, but the truth is after sometime you will feel that you have lost the true person inside you. So just be the way you are let the people judge you and keep their judgements with themself.At the end of the day one should be happy from inside.As far as I have known you from your posts, U are strong.Keep the attitude on. -
RE: These are the "Unicorn Dreams"
@us-poet - yes unicorn, u have got the power to take the reader to ur own world. I don't get words to comment on ur poems and making the same comment on every poem seems wiered. Keep going poet.
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RE: I NEED FWIENDS-FUCK THIS LONGER TITLE REQUIREMENT
@willoww said in I NEED FWIENDS-FUCK THIS LONGER TITLE REQUIREMENT:
Five requirements:
- You must be a chicken nug enthusiast
- Gotta love all music, and that includes dubstep bishes. - yeah, music is something which no one can hate.
- CAPRISUNS ARE BETTER THAN KOOLAID - I had to google it to know.
- I am more than willing to give advice. And listen to ya probs. Because thats what friends do. However, if I ever need anything, I need to know that you have my back. -And that's what friends do.
U have to dare to listen to my bullshits when I get drunk....mostly this is the part where my friends get annoyed. - NO FUCKING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. Fuck that. - done
Otherwise, my pm’s are reopened, himme up :)
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RE: Freedom writers - writing, one story together
@us-poet - Its been a long time, we used to do it in hindi..but not a continuous writing but a type of replying in poems or rhymings....I would love to try this.
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RE: I just needed to vent somethings.
That's a lot of pain u had to go through,but u feel confident to handle these by yourself. Still if u want to talk about anything u can message me.
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RE: WHAT TWS WAS, IS, AND CAN BE
I have seen a post about suggestions from you earlier too. Its a good cause and u ppl are putting a lot of time and energy. Keep going !
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RE: WHAT TWS WAS, IS, AND CAN BE
A chain of revolutionists I see....good keep going mods 👍